Strictly hypothetically speaking, if you found out that someone you love is a murderer and killed somebody out of rage (meaning it was no accident) could you still love that person? What if you were romantically linked to that person? It's not illegal to marry or be married to someone who is a criminal.
Nobody asks this question hypothetically. Don't worry. Your wife still loves you. That b*stard deserved it.
There's chicks who want to MARRY Richard Ramirez the psycho killing Night Stalker while he's STILL IN JAIL.
Depends on why he murdered him. But I think the answer would be no, I'm too little emotional for this.
I could see how it could hinder some relationships, but could I "ever" love a murderer? Sure, it's possible. I don't love people because they're saints.
Murderer implies not self-defense etc. I could "love" a repentant murderer...but I couldn't be in love with someone who killed another human being in a fit of rage. Our values systems would be too different.