I'm not sure how I feel about universities having a condom day. But from a parenting standpoint, the attitude towards sex that, "they're going to do it anyways so they may as well be safe" should be carefully considered. Statistically, the least likely kids to engage in sex are those whose parents did speak to them about sex but didn't talk about birth control. Talking about birth control gives the message that you are alright with them having sex, as long as they don't get pregnant. I realize there are varied opinion here so I guess I'm saying that if you don't mind your kids (or kids you care about) having sex, talk about birth control. If you do mind you should be careful about the context in which you give them that information.
It certainly isn't Christian in any way. Christianity teaches to wait until marriage (as we all know). In any case, whether you are Christian or not, I don't think it's responsible to be promiscuous, even if you are using condoms. I mean, would you want your mate to have had many many partners or just a few?
OMG...Mrs. Valdez??? Great, this place is being taken over by everybody's wives. The last bastion of testosterone that is clutchcity.net is slowly being permeated and infiltrated by the posters' wives. This has to stop. Attention men!! Our board is slowly being estrogenized! Sure, the number of women around here is still relatively small, but who knows how bad it will get if we keep letting them in? It starts off so innocently. "Oh honey, that site is pretty cool...how about if I sign up? I won't post THAT much!". Then, they start posting a little bit more....Then, they start threads...one per day, two per day...next thing you know, there's a "Which tastes better: Zima or Smirnoff Ice" thread on the board! God help us if Clutch's wife starts messing with the color schemes and there is fuscia all over the front page... We must put a stop to this NOW! Clutch, you delete the accounts of all the women...IMMEDIATELY! Also, I suggest removing Jeff's admin priveleges. I know it's harsh, but he must be taught a lesson for starting this horrible trend of wife posting. Jeff, Juan Valdez...I want you two to yank your wife away from the computer and say, "Listen, woman! You might have tried to pussify this board, but your plan has failed! I want you go to make me a sandwich and get me and get me a beer NOW!! You have to stand up for yourself! Nobody else will do it for you... The time has come to reclaim what is ours...
There is a since in this thread, that no premarital sex is a serious sin according to Christian teachings. I know fornication is mentioned in the Bible several times, but is no where near as serious sin as adultery which is one of the 10 Commandments. For Catholics, most of the doctrines on pre marital sex are Church produced. They aren't written in the Bible.
Glad you asked. If she's been careful and responsible, I'd honestly prefer an experienced lover who really knows her body, to an inexperienced lover who feels a bit awkward. That's just me though.
Im with you man. my life experiences will make me a better lover for my wife, as hers will enrivh mine.
