Give the guy a break. Gay jokes are made in mainstream TV on a daily basis. And I know gay guys who are not offended, and in fact find them funny. You guys are way too uptight.
Guy on cellphone with wife in college station: "Yeah hon, it's one a' dem queer-o-sexual chocolate faces like on the TV right in front of me!" apologies to black people, gay people, and people that live in college station. I am 12 (on the inside).