This might be a D&D Forum topic, but I am thinking maybe not; however, if it is, I am sure it will get moved to its proper place. Also, I wish that all the female posters here (like all 5 of them, lol) would weigh in on this issue. Okay, here is the story: A couple of cubicles down from me at work is this girl (really a woman since she is a year older than me) who is so hot. Unfortunately, she is married. But her husband is a great guy and a friend of mine; he is no jerk like a lot of these good-looking women wind up with. Anyway, she is a very sweet person and I don't think I have ever seen her get upset at anyone. Her husband is really a lucky guy to have her as she has looks and a sweet personality. She has brown hair that is about shoulder-length with blue eyes and a nice figure and is about 5'7" or so. She is also a boot lover as she told me that she has about 4 or 5 pairs (little did she realize or maybe she could guess that she was telling this to someone who has a boot fetish ). Well, she looked incredible today - she had on a long-sleeved shirt that was almost sweater-like with a blue checkered mini-skirt that came down right to her knees. And you guessed it, but she was wearing black knee-high leather boots! Man, I thought I was never gonna get my jaw off the ground when I saw her for the first time this morning. My boss said, "Yea, I knew you would go crazy when you saw her this morning!" I was really surprised that she would wear something like that as it could be *considered* a little risque for the workplace. Anyway, that is the background for this. So, here is the question (or questions): 1) I think she knows that all the men in the office find her good-looking, so did she wear that outfit solely to get attention and have guys (like me) ogling her all day long? 2) What about her husband? Why did he let her wear something like this (not that I am complaining, mind you)? Does it not concern him that there will be guys looking at her as some kind of "object" all day long? As I said earlier, I really wish that more women post here because I really want to hear the female point of view on this one. And I know, I know what Baqui will say - that she wore that because she is going to get it in the pooper from her husband tonight.
Her body, her clothes, my thoughts are she can wear whatever she likes as long as she is comfortable with what she is wearing. What so because she is good looking and married, her husband has the right to say she should only wear flat soled shoes, and baggy clothes in plain colours........ or can she only wear clothes that show her good body off when only he around.... surely unless you think she is a possession of his, her choice of clothes is her alone. Nevertheless FMBs rock and btw the rockhead rules apply here without pics this didn't happen
Wait, a knee length skirt and knee high boots... I would think her husband was glad to have her covered up.
Manny, I don't think you can call a knee length skirt a mini. Knee length skirts were the uniform at my Catholic high school.
Of course she knows the effect of what she's wearing has...that's why she's wearing it. And some guys are jealous and don't like it when their significant other wears certain things, and others don't care. She might be attached to the latter.
Manny, I guess I would ask you what you would think if a great looking guy, with a great body, came to work in well-taylored clothes that showed him to the best advantage... if you were a chick, would you somehow find this a matter for controversy? I think not.
1) I think she knows that all the men in the office find her good-looking, so did she wear that outfit solely to get attention and have guys (like me) ogling her all day long? Maybe she wanted to wear it? She has a body that's toned up and she's proud to show it off? It could be those two things... 2) What about her husband? Why did he let her wear something like this (not that I am complaining, mind you)? Does it not concern him that there will be guys looking at her as some kind of "object" all day long? Maybe because he knows he's going to be the last and only person sleeping w/ her at the end of the day and for the rest of her life (unless you get to her Manny).
or maybe she is with the former and is planning to leave him and just showing off her FMBs to her future interest Manny
Manny - skirts and boots are a popular combination for the fashion industry this year. Even some of the more conservative clothing makers were showing that look for fall/winter. I think it's a stretch to call a knee-length skirt and a sweater "risque." I think you may be reading a little too much into her outfit. Remember, just because you have a boot fetish, doesn't mean everyone else does.
She can wear whatever she wants (within the office rules, of course). It's not her responsibility to control what other people think.
Also, when I was married, I'd always try to get my wife to wear really sexy clothes to work, so I could have fun with her when we got home. Garter's, thigh-highs, High heels, all sorts of good stuff. I never took into account her coworker's feelings about it. Really didn't care, either. Just be happy she wore something sexy. Nothing more, nothing less.
LOL. Mrs. JB - glad to see this brought you out of lurking, albeit temporarily. Well, the reason why I said "risque", is that another woman in the office wore something similar (her skirt was a tad shorter) and she was getting some of the dirtiest looks you can imagine. Although no one told her not to wear that, she felt so much tension that she has never worn that outfit again. But I also wonder that if women wear stuff like this, but claim that they are not attracting attention, would they get mad if someone said they looked nice? I guess I am thinking of extreme examples or maybe I am just in one of those weird moods or maybe both.
Anyway, Manny, I wonder if that woman knows you think she is hot...she probably does. She's married, so get your mind off of her skirt!
lol This is too funny I'd agree with Mrs. JB. It doesn't seem too "risque." She's not revealing much, yet her outfit still makes her cute. Maybe she did wear it to get some attention. Sometimes females like to wear cutesy stuff just to look cute
Manny, don't you think a good-looking woman is going to have people looking at her if she wears anything but a burka? That's what I assume for Mrs. B-Bob. Lucky for me, she was only too happy to comply. Seriously, if a guy's worried about other men looking at his wife, he better find a new planet. In our secluded patio, Mrs. B-Bob can only turn the heads of male lizards and insects... the way it should be.
my guess she is too busy trying to rememebr if she wore boots while you were visiting...... nevertheless boots would go very nicely with the cheerleading outfit
