I have a question. Has anyone heard of a medicine that can make bruises go away any faster. The reason I ask is because my stepsons gf is always saying that she is in distress and being attacked, but then won't see him until she claims the bruises are gone. She claimed to have gotten beat up this past Friday. She told him she looked like De La Hoya after the fight and had a black eye. Yesterday, we told him to take her out to a movie and check for bruising. He said there was almost nothing only because she said her doctor gave her some medicine to take away all the bruising. Jeez, I can't stand this little b****, but s/s refuses to see through her lies.
She's probably lying for the attention. If she went to a doctor he'd have to report the abuse, it's the law. Unless she lied to him, but it would look kind of strange if she kept going to him to get 'bruise-away' or any other med to get rid of bruising(which i've never heard of).
Doctors have no special treatment for bruises other than the techniques described under Home Care: icepacks and later heat, over-the-counter medications for pain, and elevation of the bruised area, if possible. http://emedicinehealth.com/articles/16485-6.asp You need to tell your stepson to wake the F up. He's being played like a gameboy.
That's what I'm thinking. She's probably using the "I don't want to see you until the bruises go away." as an excuse to get together with someone else, and still get sympathy in the process...how sneaky. Of course, this could just be my paranoid-conspiracy mind kicking in.
Arnica Montana Arnica is an herb that helps reduce the effects of bruising and it works. You have to use it immediately after you hurt yourself and it can significantly reduce bruising. http://www.google.com/search?q=arnica ..but you wouldn't get arnica from a regular doctor unless he was a homeopathic doctor. Arnica isn't prescribed.
I always get my wife to kiss my bruises to make them go away faster. The most painful part is sucker punching my penis daily.
Jeez...the list is long and ridiculous. The last one, she claimed to go to an "Asian only" club called Little Tokyo In McAllen (town 50 miles away...never heard of it...nothing in the phone book. She went with a g/f. She claims she went to the RR by herself and when she didn't come back for awhile, her g/f went to look for her and founf only her cell phone on the floor. (I find this ridiculous because that means that from the time she went to the restroom to the time her g/f went to look for her, nobody else went into the r/r because surely, they would have taken a phone from the floor.) She claims her g/f reported the assault to two security guards at the club, but the report was never filed w/ the police. Then, the description of the security guards that the incident was reported to fit the description of the guys that she claims assauleted her. (Convenient that the police report was never filed) He claims he saw the pictures of her looking all beat up, but they could be old pics and I'd like to see them as well. Of course, they probably won't turn up. He refuses to see through it. She a friggin liar, and is playing him bad, but he won't see it. It's frustrating as hell.
The last time, she claims someone was stalking her, and tapping her and my s/s's cell phone line. They claimed that their AIM was hacked, and they were getting calls that the police were tracking. She claims the track went to a phone form up the country, bit it was a false track. Then someone tried to run her off the road in her friends car. She claims that they smashed it from behind and ran her off the road. Of course, that car wa never seen because it was taken away as "evidence". Then, apparantly, the car that did it was parked out in front of her house, but they never found out who did it.
Oh well, a lot of lessons can't be taught, they have to be experienced, hopefully he'll see through the BS sooner than later.
If, by some remote chance, she is telling the truth, that's just too much drama for your stepson. No one needs that ****.
After reading those posts above, my expert opinion is that she is full of ****. No one ahs that much drama in their lives and tapping cell phones just sounds dumb. That stuff doesn't happen to any normal person. Like was stated above on the really off chance that she is telling the truth, it is still too much drama for anyone to have to deal with. My analysis of the situation is that she a) ha sa need for attention and is making crap up to feel better, and b) she has something going on the side and wants to keep your stepson away from the action. He needs to drop her liek a hot rock. She isn't even very good at coming up with good excuses. Wanna bust her, ask her what the medicine is because you have some bruising you want to get rid of.
s/s-17 g/f-19 The thing about it is that he believes her over anything, and doesn;t want to do anything w/ family if it's not g/f or friends which lead back to g/f related. We've told him time and time again, but I think he might have to learn this one for himself.
I could arrange such a meeting with him that he gets hit by a lacrosse ball.... That'd give him a bruise as serious as his g/f claims to have. Then he can see for himself that bruises don't go away in 3 days or less.
