Well I guess its not really anyone's business, but this is kind of going to be unavoidable and increasingly awkward if not addressed, so I'm just going to post it now to avoid any further questions that may arouse additional curiosity. This site is filled with a bunch of E-personalities who claim to detest drama but eat all of it up whenever it is presented, trust me, I should know. finalsbound and I are no longer seeing each other romantically. This has been going on for quite a while actually, but things have gotten to the point where we have both realized it is for the best to part ways. Separation has now moved into total separation. Before anyone gets all sad and teary-eyed about this so-called "fairy tale" romance coming to an end, and before we get any "oh but you make such a good couple" remarks, I promise you that both of us feel this is the only realistic solution to this current situation, and that realization has been a tough pill to swallow, "but now I am ready to swallow" (SwolyD). We have done a lot of growing up since we met on this forum, and that includes some growing apart. Love is a fickle emotion, especially when you're young and foolish. I do not know if believe in love anymore, because it seems to be just some strange chemicals floating around in the brain that can be gotten over with time. So hide your daughters, moes is back on the market, and he's ready to get out and mash. Already attending a party at Fatty's new place Saturday Night, gonna be swinging up at Fatty's crib for sure. Gonna take a little time to shake the rust off, but I'm ready to get crazy. And hide your step-dads because finalsbound is gonna be out in Midtown prowling for man-cougars. Now both of us have a lot of friends on this forum, and we've both agreed to try and end this is civil as possible, so lets not try and pick at this or take sides, there is no need for any bitterness... this has been a stressful, depressing time for both her and I, and right now what we both need is some personal space and a lot of deep breaths of fresh air. There are a lot of good people here, and I know some people are going to be a-holes and use this to attack me, and it will probably work... but just the same I'd like to at least hope this will not turn ugly, or I'd probably be forced to leave this site, as others have in the past who tried to share similar news. Well its been a hell of a ride, and the last part has been kind of ****ty, so here's to the single life. No regrets, C'est la vie
hope you are both doing well. don't give up on something as big as love, though...i've heard you talk about your grandfather.
<a target='_blank' title='ImageShack - Image And Video Hosting' href='http://img534.imageshack.us/i/threehotgirlsbikini1.jpg/'><img src='http://a.imageshack.us/img534/8549/threehotgirlsbikini1.jpg' border='0'/></a> welcome back to single life.
Well, I think that most people here have enough respect for you and finalsbound to keep things from getting any sort of ugly. And if not, well, there's always the sic Kam on them option. Anyway, next round of beers are on me... I'll stab you with a fork if you steal the check again.
Sorry to hear it man. It's good that you are both trying to keep it civil. I know personally how difficult that can be. I've been in a similar situation, and I'll just say that you never know what the future holds. Your paths may cross again someday. On another note, I'll likely be at Jim's get together as well on Saturday, so see ya there.
Yeah just to clarify, we were "married" in a real impromptu courthouse fashion to appease some parents who didn't approve of a lifestyle choice that involves cohabitation, but this really hasn't felt like a marriage in a long time, the word is kind of cringe-worthy at this point so I avoided saying it.
I know your situation, and I remember what you went through. Glad to see it all worked out for you. As for us, it is true... I don't think either of us would say "never, never". But for now, this is a very necessary step. See ya at Fatty's.
wow I would have bet money that there was a thread announcing your two's marriage. Anyways, heres to the best for both of you and here. However. I with you Moe- I've too gave up on love after my last relationship
People tend to grow apart, pretty common but the good thing is that no kids were involve. You have a long life ahead of you.
Nah man, don't give up on hope. Put on some Sade, light a few candles, take a bubble bath. I haven't given up on love, because I don't even know how to begin to define it. Romantic love? possibly for the time being, but that is just the emo-ness of the parting of ways talking.
lulz. if SCK broke up my marriage as revenge for exposing his facebook profile, I would have immediately give him all my rep points and bowed gracefully out. SCK is a good dood tho, abides by the bro code
Awesome. Moes, sorry to hear that. However, it sounds as if it is for the best. I had a very long term relationship end in my early 20's, and I had an amazing 5 years as a single guy in my mid/late 20's until I met my wife. It's tough for a while for both of you, but it gets better.
