So I met this girl at work (I work at an apt. complex) and she came in by herself and wanted to take a tour. While on the tour and talked to her for a bit and managed to get her number. Fast-forward about a week: we both meet up at a party and chat it up for a while, both having a great time. Soon after I call her seeing if she'd like to go see a movie sometime, but because of scheduling conflicts we weren't able to go out before our spring break. This past weekend we both went to a birthday party of a mutual friend. Got pretty tipsy. Ended up making out a bit before she left. So now it appears that we are gonna finally get time to go out this weekend. It's a wierd position because we haven't really gone on a date or anything, but we made out while pretty drunk (gotta love college). I am weighing between a couple options: a more quiet night, maybe grabbing some ice cream or something and then a movie back at my place OR we could catch a movie in the theaters and then head out to a party with some friends. The first choice has its merits because we get more alone time, but the second one involves alcohol, which could always be helpful. I could go for the grand slam and take her to a party on Friday and then catch a quiet movie on Saturday night after she gets off work (she is working pretty late), but I'm not sure I want to come on that strong. I'm open for suggestions on which idea I should do...or maybe do something entirely different. Let's see if the BBS can help me score! I'll keep you all updated on what happens.
Whip it out man! j/k Good luck with that man, I am working on one of my own right now. I would help you if I wasn't needing all my concentration on this gal.
He took it out... I spent all this time trying to get her clothes off. I never thought of taking off mine.
If your just in it for the tang, keep it loud, laughing and loaded. If you have longer term interest go somewhere quiet, get her to talk about herself and pretend to listen. I can't remember if it was Fast Times At Ridgemont or some other teen movie but there was a kid that gave the best advice on getting chicks. It went something like "get it in your head that whatever you are doing is the the coolest place to be" Like going to college and working at some apartments is exactly where you a(or anyone else for that matter) would want to be. It's great! Driving a 1985 Civic and woking at the mall...it's great man! Watching old samuri movies and eating day old pizza...cool! Appear to be positive and self assured, but not too conceited. Chicks dig a dude that 'has it going on'. (even if he doesn't)
Movie dates are for later when you already know a lot about each other. You should go for a dinner and coffee or whatever so you have an opportunity to sit down & chat. Then maybe hit a party, get loaded and lay some pipe.
God I miss college.... Getting hammered and random make-outs were the best. You never really worried about seeing that person again.
<ESL> What does "score" mean? </ESL> [Awesome!]Help Mexican figure it out... Can we get a definition for "SCORING" ? ------------- Franchise3, is this ALL you're thinking about? SCORING? Stop making this your goal, and let it just happen...
DVD, Sofa, arm wrap around, 10 minute delay, breast sweep. Event A) Polite brushing of hand from breast = You have a girlfriend, but you aint getting any. You are now in a no sex environment. About 2-3 weeks away minimum. Lots of work to do. You will probably be making love instead of having sex. But take what you can get. Event B) No resistance = You can safely assume you have entered an X rated area and may progress to sex. You have a girlfriend. Probably Long term. Sex probably 5-10 minutes away. But awkward sex if you don't take the leadership role. Event C) She becomes agressive = You are about to get some hot passionate sex. It'll either be a one night stand or bitter short term relationship. But hot sex probably seconds away. Event D) Utter humilaition and confusion. No sex. Sex opportunity will not occur unti next alcohol rich enironment presents itself. That is how you determine your sex timeline. However, if you want to ensure the score, all you have to is be the bad boy, then get her drunk, and watch her fall into your lap within 24 hours. Let your emotional side weep out in little pieces over the next few months, while you are drunk, and in between bad boy stints, and you will have a long term relationship and possible wife.
Why not watch a movie at your house (pull PSJ's move), possibly get some, and then if you don't, take her to the party and get her drunk so you can get some? Is that all you're interested in? Or is this possible g/f material?
Well scoring is the key because you can't win if you can't score. Now there are two ways to score the first is by getting into the hoop during the course of timed game play with someone else defending the hoop. This is called a 'field goal' since you are moving in the field of play actively engaging other players to get to the goal. The second is stroking the ball through the hoop not during the course of timed game play and when you have noone else on you. This is often called a "foul shot" since you're shooting alone because of a foul or a 'free throw' since you don't have another person to contend with in getting your shot off. Its generally considerd much more exciting and rewarding to get a field goal than a foul shot because you are directly overcoming the opposition. It is even more exciting when you can score by going over the top of your opponent and forcefully slam down on the basket. While that is very exciting technically its just as challenging to go under your opponent to go to the hole. Another good technique is to go backdoor behind your opponent's defense. While size and athleticism are important anyone can be a great scorer by developing good skills like passing, ball control and court vision. In a team game learning to set good picks is an underated skill but valuable if you want to your teammates to set good picks to help you score. Finally remember good sportmanship. Always have fun and be gracious otherwise you'll find that few want to play with you.
This is why I love this place! You guys definitely had me cracking up while reading this whole thread. And to answer the question some of you posed: she could be g/f material - we seem to match personality-wise from what I can tell so far. But as of right now I'm not sure if she is going to be at school over the summer (not to mention I turn 21 over the summer and there will be truckloads of scantily-clad freshman here for summer semester...their first taste of independance from mom and dad. Sooo, I guess you could say I'm not sure if I would want a serious girlfriend over the summer). I'm just goin' with the flow. If I score, awesome. If I get a g/f out of it, great. But if I leave with nothing...I've failed you all .
