Asking a Girl to Dance at a club

i dont see whats wrong with asking random girls to dance...i mean isnt that the main purpose of clubing??

 

dancing is a waste of time, getting them hammered is the main to take home is the real goal.

but asking girls to dance at a club is awkward because it seems so cliqish.

 

Never ask them to dance. Just wait until they get up to dance with their girlfriends, and then make your move. Get behind her and start grinding your genitalia against her ass. If she doesn't mind it you're golden.

 

it would probably be more productive if you asked a girl to shut the hell up.

 

Look no further my friend.

 

This is the correct answer.

 

Don't just roll up and ask. You have to make up an excuse to talk and then act like dancing just popped into your mind. It doesn't have to be a good reason to talk to them, just a reason. Make sure you act as non-chalant as possible. Then just ask her. If she says no then she's a b**** and you should move on. Also, never take advice from guys that wear jewelry.

 

Seriously, this is the correct answer.

 

BINGO! Never ask them to dance, I didn't even know people still did that. I always just go on the dance floor and just start dancing with them, if they move away move on to the next girl.

 

If you don't do what Shady said first. Then try this. Buy them a drink at the bar and talk to them for a bit. Then do what Shady said.

 

This isnt an 8th grade dance where you ask the girl.

You go dance...find a girl thats dancing...start dancing with her. No words need to be spoken.

Also, if you want to talk to girls but are timid and shy in that regard, here is something that may help. When you get to your destination, grab a drink and scope out the scene. Do a quick run down on the girl that first catches your attention. Think of something you can compliment her with. Walk by her and give her the compliment (ex. “you have beautiful eyes”)…don’t stop, keep walking. When you make the compliment, make eye contact and have a smile on your face. Hold your eye contact…it will show confidence. Walking away does a few things. First, you don’t have to worry about rejection. She doesn’t have time to reject you because you are making a comment and walking. Secondly, it shows you aren’t desperate for a girl and that she really doesnt interest you enough to stop and talk (girls love a challenge). Thirdly, you have planted the seed by grabbing her attention…by walking away, you peak her curiosity.

Repeat this process for a few more girls. Now, you’ve got a handful of girls at the place that have taken notice to you. Your seeds have been planted and you just have to hope that one of them develops into something.

At some point throughout the rest of the night, whether its at the bar ordering a drink, on the dance floor, chillin on one of the couches, etc…, you will probably encounter these girls again. If you make eye contact and she appreciated the previous encounter, she will give you a smile or some sort of acknowledgement. At this point, making conversation is cake. You basically have the green light to at least start a conversation with her. She may even start the conversation with you. If you are starting the conversation, just say “hi”. Introduce yourself and take it from there. No cheesy lines…just simple introduction. If she doesn’t give you the smile, then she’s probably not interested. You can still try talking to her, but its no biggie if you don’t...youve got other girls in your back pocket.

The more seeds you plant, the better your chances of eventually getting yourself in a situation to have a conversation with one of them. At that point, its all up to you to be able to carry on a normal conversation. From there, you can ask her to dance

 

rezdawg good at planting his seed.

 

(taking some good notes down)

 

keep in mind that the above methods do not work in a strip club.

 

*memorizes*

 

I would add getting tipsy. It helps with the shyness and possible rejection. But don't, I repeat, don't get trashed. Girls don't like this and it ruins your cordination on the dancefloor.

 

And try hard not to pop a bone no matter how hot the girl is. In case you do and it seems like she's grindin her ass even more towards you then your extra golden.

 

First you plant the seed, then you wait for the seed to grow into a plant. Then, you f*** the plant.

 

Dude, it's a pleasure to see that someone else knows how it's done. I haven't been needing to do that sort of thing for a very long time, but I certainly remember the game.