Just curious what everyone thinks. Just a little hand action after a nice long massage is always nice, but you have no feelings towards the masseuse. I think they are just finishing what they started. As long as you're not 'addicted' to it and only go once every few months, is it really cheating? My gf says it is, but alot of my female friends say they dont really care if it happens every once in awhile.
I assume you mean gf? No, I wouldnt, as long as it was only a finger, who cares? lol. go to any thai massage place. the more shady it looks, the better.
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First, I never said I've had one, just wondering where people stand. And negative. I've never had a male masseuse, but I have had some really butch women that could have been a guy at one point.
SO = Significant Other It depends on what you guys define as cheating. It could be physically(Ex. Kissing, or in your case Willy Wanker) or verbally (Ex. Flirting). Personally, I agree with your girlfriend. That's just looking for trouble and the relationship probably won't last long imo.
Yeah, it's cheating. How is it any different from hooking up with someone at a bar that you have no feelings for?
Well here's the straight forward question: if you had no choice and got a male masseuse, would you be as open to getting a happy ending? No feelings involved right? If your answer is no you wouldn't then that's pretty much the reason why it would be cheating. Its a sexual form of touching and I think most people would be opposed to their significant other being touched that way.
