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approaching a female

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Luckkky, Mar 26, 2009.

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  1. Luckkky

    Luckkky Member

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    Is there any way to approach a woman out of nowhere, in an ordinary place? like at starbucks, in a line waiting somewhere, when youre eating at a restaurant, places in general besides the club or bar. Cause I feel that any way you try to make it seem like youre interested, youre going to scare them and look like a freak. and please folks do not say just start a conversation, that **** does not work... you never see that person again so this is your only chance, what would you do. is it even possible??? I have never tried cause i would be scared as **** :rolleyes:
     
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    probably if you feel this way you are not good looking or confident and thus will be charged with sexual harassment or stalking.
     
  3. The_Yoyo

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    just ask the women if she wants a ride ride


    done and done
     
  4. moestavern19

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    Women are gentle, emotional creatures who crave a confident alpha male who exudes dominance on every level...




    whip it out and let her get a look at the goods.
     
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    :rolleyes: ? Why? :p

    Ask yourself these questions, dude:
    * Why do you want to approach her?
    * Can I just make conversation without thinking 'will i have sexual intercourse with this female later'?
    * What can I say?
    * When is the right time?

    If you answer these, you will know it yourself. Also, don't try to talk with EVERY woman you see. Soon you will not know the difference between the ones that like you and the ones that don't.

    You're asking questions ALL HUMANS should know to do already. Dude, just talk, but don't blurt out something silly.

    At Starbucks:
    to the clerk - "I'll have a 'blah blah expensive drink goes here blah', please." <- you've established your manners.
    to the girl with whom you want to start a conversation - "Hi. [pause] I ordered a [same drink] because [your reasons]. What did YOU order?" and DON'T look at her the entire time so they don't think you're a psycho. This might work. I hold conversations with strangers (yes, even men) all the time, without scaring them, and even when I am with my daughters and wife. It's just a conversation and small talk.
     
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    Yeah and when she laughs...... You know you got her.
     
  7. eveluvsrox

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    it does..you prolly wasnt doing something right for it not to work. make jokes. laughter opens the door to number exchanging. just dont come off as a weirdo.
     
  8. Luckkky

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    SWOLY, im talking about a very beautiful chick that you are very attracted to and you know you will never see her again, I got 99 problems and a chick is not one! but man, im talking about when this happens which happens alot, nothing happens! as in no actions, im asking the question in general guys, as a discussion, what is the best thing to do
     
  9. Breaker

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    but isn't the OP Asian?









    jkinggg.
     
  10. Luckkky

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    again, me doing something? i havent done anything, im just asking jeezuss, so youre saying youre standing there minding your own business and a guy comes up to you and start talking to you, how would he stay in contact with you? ask for your number?
     
  11. Shaud

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    Well starting a conversation is the key to the whole thing. You obviously took the advice the wrong way, considering you said you never see the person again.

    You start the conversation, get to know her a little bit, and then get her number. If the chemistry is there then go from there. Don't go spitting game and saying corny lines. Start a normal convo and be yourself.

    After that maybe you can get what you want ;)
     
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    You've just alienated the entire GARM.
     
  13. Shaud

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    Wait is this advice for you trying to get with the chick that works with the Rockets? :confused: :confused:
     
  14. Luckkky

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    you sound so smooth on the internet :D
     
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    hahaha trust me i wont have a problem with her if i ever catch her in the streets :)

    please dont bring her up anymore, im was just starting to get over her
     
  16. Pete Chilcutt

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    Watch out Shaud :p

    JKKK
     
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    let her know that you create 2 threads per day in the hangout, that'll win her over
     
  18. Luckkky

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    how did i fortell that all of you guys were going to try to give some advice like youre a smooth ass dude lol, all you guys do is probably the saem thing i do... STARE!!! LMAOOOOOOOOOO

    alright so how would you consider keeping in contact, ask for her phone number? LOL yeah right, shes going to think youre a freak right then... its impossible!
     
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  19. Shaud

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    lol

    lmao :D
     
  20. Luckkky

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    first one today, is there a limit? :rolleyes:
     

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