For some odd reason, I just don't care about sports this year, including the Rox. The intensity just isn't there. I walk around with the neverending feeling that I forgot to do something, but that even if I forgot to do it, it wouldn't matter anyway. What the hell's wrong with me? disclaimer....i just went through a 3 week blitz prior to my wedding ceremony (we got married at city hall last year) where i drove 10 hours a day back and forth to vendors, stores, etc. plus I was rearended by someone going 40 MPH during this time. my car damages are $7G
You haven't found any tasteless stories to post in awhile. Find you one of those, you will be back to being our regular hotballa! Seriously, dude - sorry that you are depressed. Find something that you really enjoy doing and concentrate on that for awhile.
youre not depressed...youre getting ready for a wedding ceremony Perhaps one of the most stressful things people put themselves through. I never understood it. it's suppose to be a special day because of two people coming together...not because the chairs are properly cushioned, but still nice looking, or that the table centerpieces are "just right". Some people barely enjoy their weddings because they are so freaking worried about all the little mundane details. I'd imagine your wife is stressed?
we just got done with it last week. I think I must have had 50 thousand arguments with her over every single detail of the wedding. I strongly suggest everyone looking to get married to hire a wedding coordinator. The upside is I don't think we'll ever argue about something as stupid as how to hold each other's hand during the ceremony again. I honestly feel mentally and emotionally drained.
lol. sucks bro. You are better than i would be, I could never take all that crap. funny thing is, i bet she wont even enjoy the ceremony as much as she should b/c she will be pre-occupied with everything else. You will soon feel better and care about the rockets championship run...the morning after the ceremony. Oh wait...gifts and thank you cards, plus picking out the pictures
You are alright, you are just like the guy in the UPS commercial who is not so busy anymore. "BUSY BEE !!!" Life has slowed down, you need to get in step. DD
^ that cheered me up...WooHoo!!! At least you got married and if you want you can post pics so we can let you know how hot she is...That'll get you out of your funk... Seriously, sounds like a lot of stress build up so I would say you need a quick weekend getaway...And a happy ending...
thanks Shady but purple is such an ugly color though (my wife wanted this color for the wedding, we had a very long argument about it)
*looks at signature* Hmmm, so you say you're not excited about anything coming up this basketball season?....
Here is the best advice I can give to any man. The wedding is for the girl. You are just an accessory like the table linens. There is a reason you don't get free subscriptions to wedding magazines. Don't argue about the details unless you are paying for it. The only things you should worry about are showing up on time, being well dressed, and have your vows memorized. Also, make sure you don't drink so much that you can't perform the night of the wedding.
THAT is completely silly, man. I'd say let her choose EVERYTHING, then after saying "I DO", she should let you choose everything. "I said we're watching TRANSFORMERS, and skipping HAIRSPRAY!!!! And that's FINAL! " <- true story
I have to agree with you there. Purple sucks, as well as any kind of pastel color. Did you guys end up going with purple? The only things I will really care about at my wedding will be the color (crimson) and writing our own vows.
Is he depressed? Or is he a mess? Does he feel totally worthless? Who came up with Person Man? Degraded man. Person Man. (watch out for Triangle Man. He'll kick your butt).
I once thought I was depressed. I went to a "depression screening day" at a clinic across from where I work. Me and a bunch of very-sad-looking people sat in this old moldy room. After a while, someone wheels in an old projector (yes, like in 1970's and earlier elementary school classrooms). She tried to start the film (on depression, I guess), but the film broke right away. I said, out loud, "now that's depressing." Nobody laughed at all. I decided I was not depressed and I left.
