Ok, need some advice, here. I went to a house party last Saturday with some friends. Ending up making out with someone there. We exchanged info. We texted each other a few times Sunday and I set up a date for Thursday. She texted me last Wednesday and I had forgotten. So I flaked and set up another one for this Tuesday. And then it started. She has been texting me a lot since then. I've ignored most of them, but she just sent me one looking forward to tomorrow night. Here's my thing: She's got a nice body, and is an attractive girl, but I'm just not that into her. And I don't see that changing. I was looking for a hook-up girl. She's obviously looking for a boyfriend. Hell, she's acting like I already am her boyfriend. So do I follow through with the date and just try to keep her at arms-length, or do I stand her up? I actually feel crappy writing this. And we have mutual friends, so I will probably see her again, regardless.
Just tell her you aren't looking for anything serious. Since you have mutual friends, you definitely don't want to treat her like crap. Or you can go on the date, and not call her (she will get the hint).
By the way, what the heck is the poll asking??? The only question in your post is not a yes/no question: "So do I follow through with the date and just try to keep her at arms-length, or do I stand her up?"
man, dont stand her up....girls tehse days can find out where you live and stuff. it's not cool. just go with her, and dont call her after that. be casual with her. also, worthless w/o pics
Go on the date, great her in the same way you greeted me at the bar on Sunday. LOL Really, though, go on the date, don’t be an overt ass. Try not to let anything happen, but if she throws herself at you....
Sure, you should, dude. Go out with her, and see if you can give "being into her" another chance. She might just look better and act better under other circumstances. If not, then it doesn't work out. If it doesn't work out according to you, don't kick yourself when you find out she's dating someone in your circle of friends later. You have your chance now. She might be the best thing you'll ever find, but don't approach it like it's not. Good luck, sir.
Be a gentleman and carry out your commitments. But during the "date" tell her how you really feel, but be nice. When you can't be nice, call Patrick...uh, nvm. Seriously, you know what I mean. Just be a good gentleman and honest and she'll probably be a good, dear friend one day. We can never have too many of those these days. [edit] now if the Rockets are playing that night, I don't know what to tell you.
LOL. Pretty overwhelming. Looks like I'm going. Just wanted to know if going on the date was just "prolonging the inevitable" or "leading her on." I mean, I've known guys that will tell a girl whatever they want to hear to get laid.
don't stand her up...especially if you have mutual friends. just go out with her and see if she's worth getting over this red flag
I think pretending to be into someone to get in their pants and then bailing afterwards is pretty classless.
just go out with her and keep it friendly. no hugging, touching, kissing, etc. separate checks. after spending some time with her in a friendly capacity, you should have a better feel on where to go from there.
