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Would you date a woman who has a kid?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by htwnbandit, May 29, 2014.

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Date a single mom?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  3. Hell to the no

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  1. plutoblue11

    plutoblue11 Member

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    I think the guys on here think this may happen:

    <iframe width="560" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/U7H_WKXzhgg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
  2. Hmm

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    We get it, if you were female you'd carry Kurt's baby on request and do BJ & Steak day "err'day"... What does this have to do with anything...?
     
  3. Mr. Brightside

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    Depends on how beautiful the kids look. I don't want to be associated with ugly kids.
     
  4. Hmm

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    I don't see why horrid grammar would have say on the matter one way or another...
     
  5. plutoblue11

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    Actually, I could...but he's not my type... too Christian, old, and married. I'm not a fame-seeker.
     
  6. plutoblue11

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    I'm sorry, Mr. Grammar Nazis...I'm sorry about my poor diction and ruining you ClutchFans BBS...I wish I could be as anal-retentive as you are about grammar and your perfect station in life.
     
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  7. Hmm

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    You mean... you're responsible for that video's terrible title...?
     
  8. noize

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    Depends on her kids. If they're annoying or has mental issues forget about it. Also if they're very good looking kids, that's a plus. I have a friend who married a woman with two kids and he becomes emotionally attached to the kids and the kids sees him like its their own father (who wasn't around much). A win for both parties.
     
  9. HR Dept

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    Yes I would. But I would first have to figure out how to keep it a secret and not let my wife find out.
     
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  10. PinkTacos

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    Naw, I don't have any interest in raising kids, much less someone else's kids.
     
  11. mogrod

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    Well, like stated before, I was divorced after 30 so virtually every woman I met had a kid from a previous marriage/relationship. But I had my son too.

    I dated a girl for 3 years with a daughter. The girl was a complete spoiled brat... but I blame her mother not her. So, when i got got back into dating again after that relationship, I was very skeptical about dealing with that, especially more than one.

    But, God has plans of his own as I met an awesome girl (Puerto Rican), beautiful, fun, sexy, kid at heart AND a damn good mom to her two kids (8, 10), who in turn are really good kids. We just got married on May 3 and I couldn't be happier, though an obvious adjustment with the new family dynamic. But, their father is in Florida and has his issues (drugs, drinking), so he's not really in their lives at all.

    So, I would just say, unless you're just not ready to have kids around or don't want anything to do with a family, don't discount dating someone with a kid just because they have one. If she is a good Mom and understands how to balance her parenthood and relationship with you, then things can run pretty smooth in that department.
     
  12. juicystream

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    I have dated 3 different girls that have had a child, and ultimately married one of them. I was 18 when I dated the first one, and I was 22 when I got married to the third one.
     
  13. RocketBlood

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    Date sure, marry no dice.
     
  14. HPD

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    Nope the alley cat is around the corner.....
     
  15. ynelilvs99

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    At this point in time, no I would not date a man with kids. Just cant do it. As I get older though, I might have to at some point. If that happens, I hope hes a good parent and his children are good kids.
     
  16. LonghornFan

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    Pretty much this. The wife and I are both fine without children, we both have a huge family and we love to travel so much it's not something we even think about. If it happens great, if not life is still great.
     
  17. Hmm

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    Single mothers - at least the competent ones with their priorities straight - don't date just to simply have a night life, they date with a purpose...
     
  18. KingCheetah

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    I would date a woman with a kid if the child was some sort of prodigy and I could become his manager and make millions.
     
  19. Thefabman

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    Is this a thread about dating strippers?
     
  20. htwnbandit

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    Actually, you have a point there...
     

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