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After 4 years

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by gatsby, Aug 20, 2013.

  1. gatsby

    gatsby Member

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    Separate women.

    I was on and off with the long-distance woman starting in February 2013. During the on/off period, I dated Maddie (Boardwalk Empire) in NYC.
     
  2. Rox_Mayhem

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  3. BetterThanI

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    So you've been on-off with this her, and you've dated others...yet she she's on-off with you and dates others, and you're heartbroken?

    Sounds like you've done to her what she's doing to you.

    It's over. Move on.
     
  4. gatsby

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    She had much more to do with the on-off than I did, but I see what you mean looking back.

    I definitely have moved on.
     
  5. TreeRollins

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    Good to hear. Time usually heals these things.
     
  6. the shark

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    congrats Gatsby!!
    I can only imagine how tough that night in Austin was for you. Glad you were able to press forward, and have now found yourself in a relationship with someone you feel good about.

    Good luck to you.
     
  7. ima_drummer2k

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    lol...
     
  8. IBTL

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    yeah 8th grade was tough for all of us
     
  9. Dave_78

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    If this is true and she really did cry then she is a fantastic actress because I can assure you of the following:

    A. She thinks you are the creepiest focker on the planet
    B. She texted point A. to 15+ people the second you turned your back to leave
    C. Her and some other dude laughed about the incident and made fun of you between sex sessions that night
    D. One day she will tell the story of you and her to her daughter as a cautionary tale about avoiding obsessive men
     
  10. Rashmon

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    Fast forward six months:

     
  11. fallenphoenix

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    oh man, this thread. funny though, i was hooking up with some girl after i moved to austin last summer and she was complaining about some guy that sounded an awful lot like gatsby.
     
  12. cheke64

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    white girls are cold blooded.
     
  13. Haymitch

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    When you're older (25+) you'll look back and laugh. Glad you can move on now. Hope things go well from now on.
     
  14. Salvy

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    Yes this is true..... Keep moving forward.... Eventually you will find the right one. Unless she was the right one and yall just simply missed the opportunity at hand for whatever reason and probably wont reunite again until you guys are 85 and cant have sex.....
     
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  17. gatsby

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    So... I just went to Austin for work and all of the memories and emotions immediately came back. I'm happy and have been seeing someone for two years....

    But how do you deal with the memories and regrets?
     
  18. peleincubus

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    I thought about it. And I have no idea. I have a lot of good memories from girls I have dated in the past. I don't know what that really does for someone though when they know they messed up something themselves with someone they could have been happy living the rest of their lives with otherwise. So yeah
     
  19. Jontro

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    I fapped. srs. Then the feeling went away.
     
  20. ThatBoyNick

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    You do you make the memories or regrets make them go away? You don't, this is life, enjoy those memories and cherish them (just don't mention them to your current GF), use the regrets as reminders to not make the same mistakes again in the present or future..
     

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