Hmmm...apreciate the serious response. It's not the been with professional guys thing, I'm almost 100% sure. Have always been very confident in that area...but it might be just that it's p*rn....This even though were I asked at random I would say that there's nothing wrong with being in adult films if it's a free choice. I am seriously facing a dilema. I just can't shake these mixed emotions..I definitely was attracted to her on one level, but there is till this "No way." thing going on inside... JBII...The family aspect hadn't even entered into my mind...am not thinking that far down the road...but most of my friend's reaction and interest since then hasn't been " Did you go out with her?" It has been more along the lines of "Did you call her/ get with her yet? " as if they meant the same thing...except Jeff, and those female friends who know. That kind of adds a certain...lowering of the situation, and it adds to the unease. I mean, if I did call, would she be assuming it was just for sex? Not just because of what she does, but because what she might assume a guy who knows what she does would be assuming...see what I mean? AArrgh..
but isn't always a chance when you call/go on a date with anybody it could end with sex, sure she will probably think it, how could she not I'm sure she has gone on dates before and probably always has to consider is he just going out with me to sleep with a p*rn star, my guess is you won't get to sleep with her, if you go out for a drink with her for the only reason to sleep with her, i would guess she is very good at recognising this situation.
I'm thinking you might be right. Still bothered...but you're probably right. Although I don't usually go out with women who hit on me, no matter how hot...especially since bartending where, due to the atmosphere, it happened all the time...my friends joke that I have ruled out all the ways women can approach me without my becoming not interested because it's just a pick-up...But this got beyond that stage and I was definitely getting interested. I admit that. Damn...
Lol! I just read this...Oski...how do you know all this stuff? And I'm not gonna tell even if you do or have already guessed. Not just kidding...what if I blab it all over the internet, end up calling her, and later she hears about some guy blabbing all over the internet about getting it on with her?
Damn, I was/am the opposite, something very attractive about women who hit on men and yes my wife hit on me!! further to my previous post, my guess is she doesn't hit on many men and is probably very selective in the hope to reduce the dating men who just want to screw a p*rn star. PS I don't want to know, don't want to be part any chance to prove the hypocrite wrong
Uhhhhh, I uhhhhh, watch a lot of, uhhhh, E!, Yeah, that's the ticket. I watch E!, they always interview pornstars and what not. You just pick things up. I have a funny memory, see, and I just remember trivia like that, yeah, that sounds good. I am a man of my word, if you email me the name, I can assure you it will be locked away, in the lock box that is my mind. Actually, email me, but don't mention and we'll act like nothing happened.
First point..Another way I'm strange..I do think that I would prefer a woman with the confidence to hit on me, and it's not a universal rejection thing, but most of the time it feels...plastic. Ritualistic. They almost always do the same routine... Let you know they're approachable expecting to be hit on...When you don't, make small talk...Eventually leads up to a " I don't ever do this, but would you.." etc. and I always, or almost always feel fairly fake by that point, know what I mean? A couple of my female friends say I have ruled out the opportunity of ever meeting anyone..I don't like women who hit on me at bars, clubs, etc. because all they know about me is what I look like, so that makes them shallow, etc. I'm not defending myself, just painting a realisitc portrait, I know it's got flaws... I sort of hold out for movieish meetings; running into each other while taking cover from the rain under a park gazeebo, sharing a cab in rush hour...That kind of thing, and my life has always been crazy, so enough of thse kinds of things happen so that I'm not a monk. Wow, I'm really getting personal...but I don't date...I have female friends with whom I get sexual at times, under the understanding that it's just a frindship, and I have relationships at times, but I don't 'date'...Seems to much like a dance somebody else made the steps up for...I only used 'date' in the title for the sake of a quick explanation... Second point...You are probably right, and I think that you/others plus talking about this has got me leaning towards calling her.
How real are those things? http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=2924907145&category=4793
forget about bleeding heart liberal, you are just a big hearted ROMANTIC, chick flicks are not real!!!! call her, until then i have changed my sig as motivation
LOL! Hadn't even thought of that...am now back leaning the other way... P.S. I know that my last post makes me sound like a girly-man, and I'm not.
Ok...screw it...I'm gonna call her. This all feels sort of surreal now. And in honor of all your advice and interest, while I am not going to tell you her name, I will say that she is Asian...
