Advice.

Also, act like you didn't miss her at all. Don't pay attention to her. This will make her even more desperate for you.

 

Don't be too soft landing your self in the friend Zone and don't be too aggressive making yourself look awkward and creepy.

 

its so sad, but this is 100% right.

 

Then don't be surprised when she walks all over you and treats you like a therapist to talk to you about other guys once you become too aggressive in letting your feelings be known.

 

But yeah shes definately interested. Just do what your normally do

 

Why? She already has with you. She's got you wondering if she's giving you signs or not. But hey good luck whichever way you approach things.

 

Give her a forget-me-now if it all fails. She won't remember anything.

 

Just whip it out.

 

don't put the poon a pedestal

 

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That's good - and if she is worth it (hopefully she is) she will see that and won't just friend zone you. Especially since she's definitely acting interested. Just take it slow and make sure you stay on the same page with each other. I don't agree with the people saying to ignore her - if you're already good friends, you're used to being more honest with each other than that. No games. Good luck!

 

Before you pursue anything, do you know what you want with this...if you are looking for a real relationship, and if you are attracted to her, you should make a move, since obviously she has given you signs of interest. Signs of interest often last a very short time. However if you are looking just to hook up or a fling, then its best to not get involved bc this will eventually cause you to lose her as a friend.

 

hit it and worry about everything else later. If she can't be friends with you after a good session, she was never meant to be your friend.

 

You're young and in college. Long distance relationships are impossible for old timers like me but combine the previous two then ask yourself what you want out of taking it to the next level. It's better off for both of you if you don't half ass your decision, so think now what you want. Can you handle your friend going off miles away doing whatever she wants. Can she?

If you like her, make a move, lock her in. The next day discuss expectations after you know you're both out of that mode of playing games and protecting yourselve.

If you're not going to go for it, casually drop how good a friend she is and how you're jealous that she gets to be far off from home and meeting different people. Soon you'll get to be in that position.

Plus, a possibility is that she's homesick and wanting someone familiar to reduce the stress of a new life, so it's hard to assume anything until you confirm it in your own way.

There are plenty of people who can play things casual and not act weird, so its not an impossibility. Just good to set expectations because you're both friends and ideally don't want to hurt each other. This way you both leave each other an out to resume friendship, but realistically that's a .01% window.

 

I'm not saying hit it and quit it. Make her want you by giving her less and less attention because once you giver her everything plus more you'll be making a thread asking for advice on where you went wrong and why is she cheating on you.

 

Forget it breh. It's a trap.

I say put her on the friendzone first and find a prettier chick.

 

I suggest do the "Greg Oden" and see what she replies with, thats truly the only way you will ever know.