Note: This is an actual problem and I am genuinely looking for a resolution. I have yet to figure out why I can't c*m during sex. Every time I have sex, I have to jerk myself off to p*rn afterwards. No matter what I do...sex, blowjobs, handjobs, anal sex, etc. I always have to masturbate to c*m. I have also never used a condom. My initial thoughts were because I masturbate too much - I pretty much masturbate on the daily. But I took a week break and I still couldn't climax. I think it is ironic because every time I watch p*rn, I am a quick shooter - 5 minutes average and I'm done. I've also considered the obvious, that the girls I've been with just suck in bed. I am 17 years of age and I've only been with three girls but I refuse to believe that all of them 'sucked in bed' so I'm back to thinking that this is my issue. Other than my possible dependency on p*rn/masturbation, is there anything else that could be wrong with me? Or anything else I can do? This is terribly frustrating and just want to be normal.
Your partner doesn't excite you, and it's the same partner. Stop looking at ALL other 'potential partners' for sex. Stop masturbating COLD TURKEY. Wait until you have an encounter with your partner to enjoy the act, and give it all you got. Start off slow. Don't think about it. Just let it ride, so-to-speak.
He didn't say he didn't get aroused, he said he doesn't climax. It might be psychological, trust issues or something, but probably the masturbation.
This actually crossed my mind but since I get turned on easily by the opposite sex and I watch heterosexual p*rn, I'll keep that under the table for awhile.
Being in high school, I'm willing to bet there is a complete lack of emotional connection. Rafi, I hope you know it's your brain that triggers your climax, not your schlong. If you're just humping away without a thought in your head, I can see why you're having this problem.
