A woman i had the biggest crush on in college just interviewed me

just for the record i never told her i had a crush on her

the message was through facebook because i didn't get a card and it stated that i had the experience she wanted.

i knew that it would be an issue, i totally misread what she wanted when i said what my experience was mostly. there are two sides to the job and i have most ly one side and would rather do that side.

most people in the field i'm in want the other side.

its credit, and there's running credit and there is collectiions. in business most companies really want collection people which quite honestly a job anyone can do. these jobs usually pay well.

i had three interviews at one company over a span of three years. a major oil field services company, i first interviewed with the top manager, she wanted collections. about a year later i interviewed with the person right under her, and she said she wanted collections. then i had a phone interview with an hr person at another time in which i basically said stopped wasting my time.

well i've been interviewing four years, i've had two contract jobs and another offer i blew. i started a thread on it. the offer i blew was an interview with the second woman at said company. she really wanted someone with my experience at said compny but that's not what her boss wanted. she got a position as manager at an up and coming oil field services company and wanted to run it her way. she wanted me to be her like right hand person. and i blew it.

 

the job offer i blew she remembered interviewing me previously which was over a year and i remembered her name before i got to the interview. i was totally shocked.

 

i know that got kind of technical, i just didn't want people to think i blew the opportunity flirting with the lady. once we got past i remembered her it was all professional

 

okay, i see the agency is posting this job again. the job is in laporte and i think from the updated description that was a problem for the person who they hired. should i contact this person through facebook and make a personal appeal? could it hurt if i was actually considered again?

 

i'm going to answer you reasonably. on unemployment you don't turn down interviews. all interviews were with different people. the third i basically told them don't waste my time as i wrote in the post you responded to. i know people like to be funny but this is my ****ing livelyhood so don't be an ass

 

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thanks jackie i actually get a lot of interviews closing the deal is the problem. sometimes i come on two strong i have recently started to figure out. for instance two months ago and about a year and a half ago, two separate companies i was told i'm very thorough in the interview in talking about myself, but i didn't hear back from either company

 

not disputing anything in this post and its actually the first i've ever seriously considered practicing. Howeva, if you read the post about me blowing the opportunity that i started another thread about, sometimes especially in this job market its all about the perfect match. and the opportunity i blew, it was damn near it, it definitely was for the employer, and it was 90% perfect for me. when the opportunity is there you can't blow it.

but interviewing better would provide a few more offers i'm sure. sometimes i'm more qualified than the person hiring and i don't know how to get over that because that's almost always a deal killer i can tell even though they never will admit