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Stuck with friends with benefits

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by CXbby, Mar 1, 2013.

  1. Stone Cold Hakeem

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    #Humblebrag thread is #humblebrag.
     
  2. thegary

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    i was dating this super hot girl in houston that got a lttle too into that. had to GTFO, and i like to party but...
     
  3. SK34

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    Just keep doing what you're doing. Since you're already taking her to dinner, keep doing stuff like that. The more time you have to impress her the better chance you have to get a relationship. Money is not going to be an issue for her but you gotta show you can provide and have a good future. And bang her. Eventually 2 things can happen, she'll say no more or catch feelings.
     
  4. el gnomo

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    She's lying about all that Harvard Law crap. In reality, she's a stripper/escort.

    'Sociopaths lie. They lie a lot. In fact, they can create total and complete fairy tales out of ordinary, mundane events and can live within those fairy tales, until eventually their own fabrications become their reality.'
     
  5. CXbby

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    And I'll be left with either a broken heart or catch AIDS. Meh, could be worse.

    Seen her graduation pictures. Talked to her Harvard friends. She actually stayed in the same dorm as Jeremy one year, is buddies with a friend of his. Would be one elaborate lie. Could happen, I guess. I could do worse than an ultra-intellectual stripper/escort.
     
  6. AroundTheWorld

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    I don't understand the problem :).
     
  7. el gnomo

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    Agree. Nothing wrong with that.

    The more elaborate the lie, the harder for you to call her out. Plus, you're clearly blinded by the p---y.
     
  8. LCAhmed

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    You can't have your cake and eat it too my friend. Either cut ties completely since she wont be in a relationship with you, or continue to be a cuddy buddy and PRAY that shiet changes.
     
  9. ynelilvs99

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    Keep stroking her ego. The sex is not what she wants you for, believe me. Keep thinking shes the best most wonderful being on the planet, and make sure u show it to her as much as u can, thats really what she wants from u.
    Youre welcome.
     
  10. nappdog

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    On the internet we can be whatever we want to be...
     
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    if your cool with her cheating or having an open relationship go for it !
     
  12. Oski2005

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    Let me "bump" into you guys one night, then excuse yourself because of an emergency and then ask me to take her home. I'll find out if she's looking for multiple FWBs when I call you the following morning from her place...
     
  13. DudeWah

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    This thread is like the polar opposite of that other relationship thread.

    Good job brah. Hope you manage to pull it out (no pun intended) and make her fall for you. Odds of it happening don't seem to be in your favor though so enjoy it while it lasts.
     
  14. bejezuz

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    Sounds like a female Patrick Bateman to me.

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    That, or her hormones will kick in and she'll turn into her mom right around her 30th birthday. That's the thing about female attorneys. They're hell on wheels in law school, but then you begin to notice how few of them are still practicing five years out. It's gotta be the most expensive way to land a high-status husband, but I've seen the pattern over and over.
     
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    Love is a weak human construct, but a powerful tool amongst abled bodied females. Unbridled emotions will be your downfall. Rather, detach yourself, zoom out, and diagnose whether this asian female possesses the genetics to complement or mask your own genetic strengths or weaknesses.
     
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    Where are the pictures?
     
  17. SacTown

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    Odds are you dont het much tang
     
  18. Deckard

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    I don't see the problem, either. OK, I see one problem. He's fallen for the chick, that's obvious, and she just wants to have sex.


    Wait... what's the problem??
     
  19. CXbby

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    You are way off base here. While she has shown clear traits of extreme vanity, a self-professed utter lack of empathy for her fellow man, sex addiction, and an increasing self awareness of her sociopathic nature, she has very specifically laid out to me that murder and necrophilia are where she draws the line.

    It may sound like I am trolling, but she actually said that to me. In a more or less deadpan jokingly fashion. On the other hand, as one poster previously mentioned, sociopaths are notorious compulsive liars. Which if it is the case here, it was nice knowing you guys.

    Love is a chemical imbalance in our brain. I make a living dealing with my own emotions, so I am hopeful that skillet will aid me in my pursuit here, rather than cripple me.
     
  20. pippendagimp

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    she wants her freedom so don't crowd her space. just play it cool until she eventually lets you into her world (which is only for her closest closest friends). once she confides in you she'll basically be at your mercy.

    but alas, this business about her being the best woman you have ever met -- i don't buy it. i mean even if she really is, there will always be an even better one down the road. don't give up to quit the game and retire on the first 10 bagger you hit :grin:
     

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