We can be best friends???? At what point in your life did you look down and notice you actually possessed a vagina?
stop talking to her. Why do you need her in your life anyways? You do realize there are other girls in the world, right? How old are you?
"shes really a great girl". lol stfu, you just want to smash that.. cut her off guy. no shame in getting rejected. cut ties, setting up some "lets be besties" shiit isnt going to work like you, deep down in your mind, think it is.. shes gonna go out with dudes that treat her like shiit and no matter how much you comfort her, shes gonna choose them over you..she doesnt want your coccck, she never will. find a chick that does.. you say "maybe i should be more of an *******" then respond with this "lets be best friends" nonsense.. smh..
Get another girl, forget her. If she asks, tell her you got a girl. Then forget her again. Unless you can somehow go from "friend zone" to "friend zone w/ benefits"
bro, ignore what what all the guys above you have said when they say “cut her off", or "stop being friends with her". From the sounds of it you really adore her. Its great. You found a girl that really hits your spots and makes you go all tingly inside. You can't get her to be your girlfriend? So what, I bet you were never in it for the sex anyways. You can just be "best friends" with her, and that is really fantastic!! Above all you enjoy her company and attention more than anything else, so being "best friends" is all you could ever want!
This isn't bad advice and probably is coming from the only female in this thread (sorry if my read is wrong ). To add my worthless opinion, I was friend-zoned a few months ago by someone I absolutely adore. I've done relationships every which way and tied the knot before too, so it wasn't a confidence thing or hesitation or whatever. I processed it, have been honest ever since, seen other girls and accepted being a great friend to someone I feel strongly connected to. Now we're dating. It's not an impossible route. Patience and honesty and if it happens naturally, then great. Accept and respect her decision, and focus on your life and date and if it never happens with her, well as W22 said, you still have a great friend. This is all assuming that you care more about her than just smashing that ass. This is good too, as long as you're not being a creep...unless she likes it. You just need some basic observational skills to avoid being seen as a perv by her. But life will give you situations to work with if y'all still hang out.
Shouldn't get so upset b/c she isn't physically attracted to you. If you need to pressure a girl to like you then you're doing it wrong.
all you need to know <iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/T_lh5fR4DMA" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> (only exception- people can be friends only if they don't find each other attractive).
I don't know what world you live in, but if a girl is even moderately attractive there is some other sap willing to put up with her crap. She will have no problem getting another guy.
I don't do this very often, but sweet feathery JESUS, that was a really p***y thing to say. No wonder this has happened to you so many times.
Good for her. I like living in a world where I'm not a pet on a leash watching my owner **** another dude while I sit in a crate in the corner of the room. PS; Do you even Lift?
