Tell her you have enough friends and aren't interested in another one. She and you both know you have a connection. Tell her you want to take it to the next level, or never talk to her again in your entire life. Clearly you are afraid to take a decision. But there are three options here; -Stay the "safe-house" and backup plan all your life, and suffer. -Lose a friend. But then again, you have a **** load. -Get the girl. I know what i'd do. You owe it to your personal pride.
Meh you put in a lot of wasted effort. Try this: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...he-friend-zone-friend-girlfriend-or-boyfriend Much less effort, if it works, it works. If not well you aren't wasting your time and you can find other girls.
Dude .. . . let me be perfectly clear SHE DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR REASONS ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT YOUR EXPLAINATIONS ABOUT YOU It is all about her bro and how YOU make HER feel. She will nod . . she will smile but she not going away . .. YOU HAVE TO LEAVE Rocket River
a b**** ain't crazy for getting something for nothing. if there weren't so many schmucks out there willing to throw time, money and attention at women who barely give them scraps, women wouldn't feel so entitled. similar principle, genders reversed: when a guy will string a girl along and use her for sex, when she's in love with him and hoping he'll eventually want to be in a relationship with her. can you blame a dude for never actually committing to her? he's getting sex, affection, and all the good things that come with a relationship and avoiding all the boring and unpleasant parts. why the hell would they want that arrangement to end? why would a chick who gets time, money, and attention without having to give up sex want the arrangement to end? shXtty behavior sure...but the ones that let them get away with it because they're entranced by a pretty face deserve 90% of the blame.
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Stop spending time and talking to her. Make her realize that it is you that she misses and not just a placeholder. No one can replace you and then boom...
aint trolling. If ya fahked ha propa from the start, she would at least be letting him hit it. She experienced the physical part of the relationship with him but aint bout it bout it, but she digs the other things you do for her. She will try and find a guy who can do it all. I mean c'mon. All women fantasize of being raped. Not in a violent and murderous way, but in a movie rape type of way.
It's not that bad. Getting her loosened up in a good setting with some alcohol and fun might give him the chance to prove he's no friend type and give him the chance to be aggressive and take what he wants. Just not in a creepy *violently grabs her* "I've bought you all this **** and now it's time to pay me back! *rips off her shirt*
I think what Han Solo is trying to say is that OP needs to remind the girl that he has a penis. You should probably try to do that without forcing yourself on her though. Trust me, you'll regret it.
Sadly, I read that AFTER I spent 3 years of my high school life being completely devoted to this one girl
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Don't tell her why. That is more chump behavior and she will respect you even less. Just say you can't make it because you have something to do with someone else. Next time you do something, you should ask her. She should start doing things you want to do. Perfect. I was about to suggest 1, 2 and 3 on that list.
Condensed story of htownrox1: Baaaaack in High School met this girl in class, instantly attracted... She invites me to go sit at her table(science class) so I do. I make her laugh, we become friends. In the back of my mind I wanna be with her so bad but I don't mention anything to her. I figure I can start off as a friend and hopefully progress to something more. Weeks go by... We sit together at lunch, work together on class projects, and even hang out after school. She says I'm her "best friend". I'm like "cool, whatever gets me closer to you". Time for prom rolls around... I wasn't intending on going to prom but she keeps insisting I have to go. Now, I know the only way I'm gonna go if she's my date. I hear from a few of her other friends that she's interested in another guy at a different school. Heart sinks. Her friends tell me she wants me to ask her to prom. I'm like "WTF?" I ask her with a corny poem and she says yes excitedly. I'm stoked... We go to prom together and everyone says we make a cute couple. She brushes it off and says "we're best friends". I'm burning inside. I hide my emotions and try to enjoy prom. We dance and it's killing me inside. I want so much more... A week goes by and I decide to finally tell her how I feel. I tell her and she's shocked. She says she needs some time to think. About a week goes by and she tells me she feels the same way. I'm speechless, walking on clouds. Weeks go by and we date. Everything is going awesome... Then one day after we go to the movies she tells me in the car that she doesn't feel anything with me and we should just stay friends and maybe down the road things can change. My heart breaks. Friendzoned again. After we graduate she tries to keep in touch, but I just ignore her all together. Moral of the story: Sure, it hurts like hell but you have to let her go. If not you're just gonna be clinging on to false hope. I hate b*tches.
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Move on have sex with many women and by the time you think about her again you will LOL at wasting your time on girls that want to be friends.
Why do you want to be in a relationship with a person who is obviously using you?? Dump her ass politely. Tell her that you are not interested in being just friends and you are looking for a relationship. Tell her that you understand that she does not want it which is why you dont think you two should keep meeting. Either of the two things will happen: 1) She never contact you again. Congratulations! You just got rid of a loser and user in your life and now you can move on to bigger and better things. 2) She will realize that all of a sudden you have begun to respect yourself. You are not looking desperate anymore and suddenly she wants to be with you. She will contact you. At this point, you can just take her in, and be true to your loser self, OR You will say you are not interested anymore and you are ready to move onto bigger and better things. Do you have any idea how many single women are out there?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?
