I don't understand the point in berating the guy. He got drunk, had a nice leer session on a younger, good looking girl who may or may not have been down, posted about it on here, and went about his day. Whether or not it's all true makes no difference....it still brings up an interesting insight into what people believe. When I originally posted, I missed the part about him being married, so I just thought the debate was over whether he should get with his friend's employee. The marriage aspect of it adds a much more sinister twist to the plot line. I, for one, regard loyalty as being one of the biggest qualities a human can display, so for me, it's a definite no-brainer in the negative direction. However, like I said in my previous post, a little flirting never hurt anybody, and it's always nice to know you have options. Besides, regard it as a test of your will and character. You said you don't know how your wife would feel.....well, instead of wondering if she would mind if it happened, instead think about how she will feel when you tell her that you abstained out of love and respect for her. The positives of abstaining far outweigh the negatives IMO. That is, if you truly do love and respect your wife.
Trust is important too. Your spouse has to trust that the sex with other partners is meaningless... Lying to your spouse is generally a mistake, unless it is purely to make them feel better, and not CYA.
pretty shameful to consider cheating on your wife I feel sorry for your marriage - it sounds like it's not meeting your needs (or maybe you're not meeting your partner's needs)
So the real question is not whether it's OK to bang your friend's hot nanny, but if it's OK to cheat on your wife. Well... Just get a divorce.
Not necessarily tbh. He was just thinking out loud. It happens to many of us men who use to "get his" all the time and finds himself in plenty of situations now. Except now they are married and have kids etc. Thegary just shared what some married men keep to themselves.
If you are okay with the cheating aspect of things, what is your wifey's number? I'll give her the D while you screw the German w****.
there's a darkness upon me that's flooded in light In the fine print they tell me what's wrong and what's right And it comes in black and it comes in white And I'm frightened by those that don't see it
I can be the test dummy. I've never cheated on any girl I've ever been with. But, I've also never had a "piece of begging hot ass" placed before me when I was already with someone. I'm currently with someone. So let's do this, for the sake of science. I'll be real classy like and get a nice king size bed at a Super 8. The kind where you can make your own waffles in the morning or eat the baked goods that somehow taste like nothing.
