I was an accident and my mother cried when she found out she was pregnant. No joke. I'm the youngest by 10 years. Fortunately, didn't find out until long into adulthood and my mother had already passed away.
Parents had me on purpose because my sister died half a year after her birth(heart problem). I was the one to fill the void and overcome the mourning process, I guess.
I, too was an accident and didn't find out until adulthood. I never would have guessed until I did find out and I really didn't care either (both before and after finding out). From what I can tell my parents always treated me just like they would have treated a child they would have wanted, so really, what's the difference.
Accident. Mom was 40, Dad was 46. But....they did have my younger brother 2 years later. I assume he was an accident as well.
Well, my Dad told me I was a mistake at age 17, told me my Mom forgot to take her pill. So I confronted her about it and she said she wanted a son to go along with my older sister. So, I guess a planned mistake? My real dad was a total prick but all I can do is be the father to my child he never was, to try and heal.
Considering the fact that my Mom was not married, I would guess No. Thankfully, my Dad was married, so I have that going for me. :grin:
i was had 'on purpose' Gen 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. thanks jesus. and polygamy.
On purpose, my birthdate was planned however and makes me feel a little bit controlled seeing as it wasnt a natural birthdate.
My #3 brother-in-law calls himself "The Planned One"... and he was! I was child #2 in my family.... after three consecutive miscarriages.
I was planned. My older brother was a major handful when he was little though, so they waited a little longer than would have liked. But because he was such a menace, they decided to wait until he was a bit older, so that they didn't have to put up with an infant, and a problem child at the same time. So, hence the 8 1/2 year age difference between us.
I was planned. My older brother was an accident that my mother refuses to acknowledge anything beyond that. She is quite ashamed and embarrassed for reasons we can only infer (There is a good theory). Different father (no that is not the theory, and was adopted my dad after our parents got married). My younger brother is I guess a planned mistake. Dad and stepmom decided to try once, and the next day decided it was probably better if the didn't. Too late, and I have a brother 18.5 years my junior (My older brother has 2 kids older than our little brother). My oldest is a mistake (adopted by me, so only my wife's mistake). My youngest was planned. I guess in 16 years I'll be due for my planned accident.
Total mistake. My biological parents worked together and were having an affair. When bio mom got pregnant, bio dad peaced out. Bio mom put me up for adoption and here I is.
The nice thing about being an accident, is you can pretend it was only once. Us planned children know our parents were probably screwing constantly for at least a month (though my planned child was conceived day one).
