That I didn't believe her & that her story sounded like bull****. She was like "well if you dont trust me it wouldn't of worked out anyways" & I said "ok lol".
Sorry it didn't work out, but it sounds like you did the right thing. It's better to find out early on that she wasn't trustworthy than much later on after you were in even more deeply. That doesn't make it easy, but it's better than it could have been.
I think you messed up. You should have listened to Rocket River's advice and proceeded with it. You hesitated and it gave her the chance to give you some BS excuse. She probably feels like a **** about the whole thing and is in denial that she is actually a slore, so she will give you that cop out and call it quits using her woman-logic rational. In the end, she pretty much cheated on you AND broke up with you. LOL. You should have just played it cool. Like RR said, demote her to F buddy. Act like everything is normal... Hit it over and over and ignore her. Treat her like the **** she is and nothing more.
<br> Uh yeah. That doesn't work 90% of the time. It's best to hit a few times and move on and not try to get her to F buddy status.
Revenge BS like that gets you nowhere. The only reason you want to keep score is if he was aiming to bone her other hot friends (which would've need a different resolution). Otherwise, the OP is better off pumpin, dumpin, and movin on. She might even like playing games like that and mind **** the **** out of him. Trouble is trouble, man. The less you deal with it, the more you do things right when it really matters.
The best thing would have been to just bust her when Andres was over...that way, she has zero ability to twist it up in her head and justify why the relationship didnt work out. But, obviously, its not as easy as that...good that you ended it.
Good thing you got out of it! Catching her in the act would have been better like rezdawg said, because she's just going to tell everyone **** to make herself sound innocent. Typical w**** ****. But like I said, good thing you got out of it.
To be honest I got cheated on too. And I LOVED her. It was my first relationship, the time being the 2nd year of college. After she cheated on me, I felt a sense of the extreme need for vengeance, but upon the advice of an internet forum where I voiced my deeply hurt feelings, all advice was that to move on and leave everything behind. Against all my emotions and burning desire for total revenge, I made myself move on. I guess it was a good decision looking back at it now, though I am just beginning to understand the logic behind that. Thanks for explaining it to me.