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Don't know how to approach cute girl at the gym

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by paulftsk, Jun 6, 2012.

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  1. hotballa

    hotballa Contributing Member

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    wow creeper of the year award.
     
  2. Dave_78

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    I'm rooting for you, Paul. You're on the right track brahseph. Just don't overcompensate for being nervous by being too much of a dick. Remember to mix in small amounts of subtle compliments with healthy portions of indifference. That's the formula.

    Or you could do like me and just be yourself and see where that gets you.
     
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  4. got em COACH

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    Next time when you work out together tell her you have two tickets to the astros game from work and that your buddy left you hanging. Ask her if she would like to go or else it would go to waste.
     
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    Nice job taking a pic of the back of another friend of yours.
     
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    Day game is more difficult than night game. Most likely she doesn't want to be bothered.

    I think the first thing is to make small talk, and whatever you do make sure you command her FULL ATTENTION when you talk to her. Strong eye contact and be clear and direct, otherwise you will never get her number.

    Things to remember: if you like this gym, better off NOT to talk to her. Once it goes bad, you'll never go back, for fear of embarrassment.
     
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    I just read your post that said you made contact. However, you missed an opportunity. When she said I'll be here tomorrow we can do abs, you should have said something like can't we get to know each other first, before we work out. How about I take you out instead.

    As it stands, she has sat an expectation on you, be here, we'll do abs. You didn't object so she sin't challenged by you. It's probably only a 10% chance she even remembers what she said, however YOU are obsessing over it. A BAD spot to be in.
     
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    this guy is trollin'
     
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    Well done, paulftsk. Don't listen to these haters. Girl has a nice figure. You did well. Now you must make the next step.
     
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    another stupid thread started by stupid poster
     
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    Picture should go in the Nice Ass thread. :grin:
     
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    Man your sister is HOT
     
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    Just keep in mind that she is being friendly and may not have any idea you are interested in her or not.

    You need to send a clear signal sooner than later though. Make your intentions clear. Do the ab workout with her, but make sure you make it clear you are interested in her. Don't be a timid man about your feelings. Don't pretend you want to be her friend when you really want more.

    Do the ab workout and make conversation, than ask her out for a drink. Be content that she may say no for a multitude of reasons - none of which is important. What's important is that you feel no shame in going after what you want and being transparent and direct - which is strong and assertive and in the end, will get you what you really want in the long term.
     
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    This. You have to make a move next time you see her though.
     
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    What if he's Asian :)
     
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  16. paulftsk

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    I'm going in today. Thanks for all the advice, brahs! It's probably unlikely that she's there on a weekend, but I need to make up my missed workout anyway.

    I'm going out to Rice Village tonight, is it a good idea to ask her to come?
     
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    Keep it up brah, but tbh she looks like a 6/10 at best. She better have a killer face
     
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    Maybe not so much. Shoot for future plans, since you have already got plans tonight. ask her to come out with you next weekend
     
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    ??? 10% chance that she remembers what she said a day ago? so, you're assessing that there's a 90% chance that she is r****ded or dumb as a brick?
     
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    :( Come on. Everyone missed this?

    I'll bow out of this thread now. :eek:
     

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