It's been 8 months since my ex broke up with me, and just recently her sister+mom told me of the news that she was in the hospital due to typhoids. Even though it was hard to resist, I refused to go. Because why would I? She left me cold. But even then, I still have this sense of guilt that I should have went. Because part of me still cares for her. Did I do the right thing by not going, Clutchfans? Aside from that... I haven't met anyone to replace this girl. No one to get her out of my head. There is this one girl but she's a butterface. Banging body but the face leaves something to be desired. Should I pursue someone who I don't find very attractive in the face area?
relationships can end badly...i understand why you did not feel like going... IMO...this girl was once the most important person in your life, from your post seemed like someone who you really cared about. If it was me, i would of gone. even if it was just as a friend. heck...sometimes even a hated coworker ended up in the hospital, i would still probably send a get well card. seeing its someone who is special to you, why not go and just check on her. even if it was just for a few minutes, it would definitely make you feel better. if it all works out, the girl will see how a caring person you are and will start to regret breaking up with you, in turn making you feel a lot better...:grin:
Not again... You couldn't just bump your old thread? You got problems man... How insecure can you get? Smh
Why didn't you just bump your other thread... You know the original one on the same topic Edit: I don't understand how you're so insecure, especially after you talk so much **** towards me and other posters in basketball related threads... What are you some kinda sensitive thug?
Are you a specialist in the field of bacterial infections? If you aren't, then I wouldn't feel bad about not going, you aren't going to be able to help. She is your ex, who hasn't contacted you for 8 months, she is out of your life sir.
How old are you and how many relationships have you had? Way to dump your purse out for all of clutchfans to see
A lazy, sensitive, and insecure thug... Not a good combination. You don't sound like this when you're talking **** in basketball related threads
I don't want this to go there. Let's just say some (there are only three) personalities such as yourself can be annoying as hell sometimes, taking away from my usually enjoyable experience on this board. But I'm willing to forget about it, especially since you have toned it down with the Battier/ Gay nonsense. Lol I don't even claim to be a thug. I just love ragging on your BS. Hurl all your insults all you want.
23, she was my first (serious) relationship. As for showing weakness to Clutchfans, it doesn't matter. I strive when people criticize me, I also gain wisdom from it.
If you're gonna talk ****, don't be surprised when other people rag on your bs relationship or lack thereof threads. I'll give you the same advice I gave you in your OTHER thread on the SAME TOPIC. Grow a pair, man up, and move on. But it sounds like you don't think you can find another girl like your previous one, which says a lot about your self-esteem and confidence. It's insecure guys like you that ruin it for the rest of us.
This. You haven't been able to meet another girl because maybe a part of you refuses to close off the ex. You may think you've tried but it's the same scenario as the "Don't think about a pink elephant in a room". No matter how much you focus on getting past it, the burden of the pink elephant grows. If you don't stumble over redirecting your thoughts sooner naturally (ie: meeting another girl worthy), time may be your only bandaid. But I think I speak for most people when I say we've all had that one ex we might have emotionally clung on to too long. And hindsight being 20/20, I'm awfully glad how life has unfolded since moving on and couldn't imagine why I harped any longer than I should have. How old are you? (just curious) Instead of trying to find a girl who amounts to her - just let her go all together. The next cute girl you meet, view her as just that. A cute girl with a new slate and focus on every quality that you enjoy rather the flaws that don't compare. Once you get that down you'll realize she's nothing but a fleeting thought! You'll be set in no time man, just keep trucking forward.
Nah, I was referencing a tv show actually with the purse comment. Anyway, it'll take you a while to get over her, upwards of a year. I'd give you advice but I know you won't listen anyway.
How can you talk about your ex girlfriend as having a face that "leaves something to be desired"? If you're that shallow to value her by her body and physical appearance, then you should stay clear of women altogether. As for not visiting her in hospital, that's your choice. I think would be a gesture of kindness to visit her and buy her some flowers, regardless of how she treated you. After all, shouldn't love have a short memory and be selfless?
No, no, no. I was speaking of a new girl. Love should have a short memory and be selfless. Good one...
