Why are HOT girls completely psychotic? Advice needed.....

drewdog,

from a females prospective, some goodlooking women are insecure with themselves, of course regardless if ur goodlooking or not u can have low self esteem. although, from the sounds of it, she seems to nit-pick ya on things cuz she's unsure of herself. i mean, i know it prolly doesnt make any sense, but believe me, i'd say RUN!! its prolly scaring her that possibly ur the better looking person of your relationship. when a women gets scared or worried, she tries to be the "bigger" person & does anything to grab the attention from anywhere. & about the lying, what are u crazy, u dont need to put up with that BS!! with all said, getting out of a relationship is one of the more harder things to do, especially if ur head over for the girl. if u notice ur fighting more & more, good relatinoships dont fight daily (only if the making part is a+++, ha) nah, all joking aside, good & "meant to be" relatinoships are more meant to be focused on each other, not on lies, cheating & anything negative. its not meant to be aroller coaster ride on a daily basis... just a few down slides then ur right back up to perfecting ur relationship, awlways working on keeping the spark!! speaking from experience, the best looking people arent always the best people to allow to win over ur heart. beware!!

 

Drew's moving to H-Town and having more psycho-lady problems...damn have I been out of the loop or what?!

Anyway, you obviously are in a bad situation and you know it. You said it yourself. She will get the attention she "needs" whether it is physical or emotional, from whoever will give it to her. You either need to be 110% certain you can feed those needs without riding her emotional rollercoaster or you just need to bite the bullet and find another, less taxing one to ride.

Hey, are you down for one last Aussie's B-Ball get together before you bail to H-Town?

 

Several people here are on the right track: when a girl is perceived as "hot", she will know it at an early age. And, frankly, she will be "spoiled" in terms of relationships and will be able to get away with a lot more.

Being female, you grow up with a lot more expectations attached to your appearance than men do. And, while you can work out and do your hair and makeup, there are some appearance-related things you can't do anything about (without surgery). It gets annoying seeing the "hot" ones use guys and throw them away. Treat them like cr@p, make impossible demands, expect lots of expensive gifts, and generally not be the supportive best friend that a girlfriend ought to be. Then you have the rest of us saying, "I would never treat a guy like that. What kind of heartless b!tch..." But the rest of us have a different perspective on this.

As guys grow older, it gets better. They modify their definition of "hot" to include things they like instead of just physical traits that are popular in the latest movies and magazines. Hopefully they move away from the physical emphasis to some extent (though I hear it's hard for guys to do that). Most of us ladies have two options: wait for them to grow up, or just hook up with someone a bit older.

It never hurts to modify the criteria you use for picking out your dates and starting your relationships. Better than being emotionally stuck in a relationship with someone who continually lies to you.

 

Seriously, it's not that bad out there once you get acclimated to doing things for yourself. What you need to do is be honest with yourself and decide whether you are in this because you believe it could go somewhere or if you are just in it so you can get laid and not be alone.

I've been laying low recently, along with dealing with computer issues and looking for apartments. I'll give you a call this weekend to see what you're up to.

 

Ya'll up for Friday or Saturday?

 

Sure, go when it's Drewdog's last time, but RM95, nah, I'll stay at home.

Consider my feelings hurt.

 

My wife and young'n are at the in-laws this weekend, so it works out for me.

Come to Austin this weekend and we'll throw you a post-Going Away Party....that is, if I can talk anyone into attending .

 

Nah, I'm going to Houston to hang out with Refman and MadMax...posters who actually like me.

I'll be heading down for at least one UT basketball game though.

 

Oh yeah. Keep me informed on that if you'd like some company.

 

Are you going to Houston this weekend? If not I'll be in Dallas, so let's do a Dallas Rockets Association.

 

Hey Drew, what is your answer to my request? you think Pimp or Major could do my request. I need one more person.

donny G has committed.

 

DAMMIT. Yeah, I'm heading down this afternoon cause RM95's Girl's friend is throwing her annual Christmas party tomorrow night.

Of all the weekends...

 

I don't do requests....especially if you don't ask me. What's up man? Don't be shy.

 

When I see the words "HOT girls" in the thread title, I expect pics. But all I got was this lousy Venn diagram.

 

Hey, there's no reason you can't have both!

 

Pimp, check your e-mail, and Drew, can you make it?

 

Sweet!

Pimp, give me a holla.