Chick, who is a bi-sexual girl who leans more towards women. But, I do have a unisex title in my name, while it's mostly a site for guys. Also, that was one of my points, what exactly is wrong with a bi sexual man?
My biggest gripe about all of this is why would you go out with someone that is unattractive in the first place. If a girl is hideous or simply unattractive to yo it's not like you have to entertain her request. Simply say that you have a girlfriend or you're not looking for anyone right now (Happy being single). I've dated anyone who I was not remotely attracted to. I might just be better about holding someone's look against them. The screwing part I guess is understandable, since most dicks don't discriminate when it comes to open holes. But, dating a chick who is the opposite (in looks) of Salma Hayek, January Jones, and etc . . . is your own decision and fault. Besides, if you are dating someone that must have other qualities you can focus on besides their looks. Hell, most of us girls have to do it.
Your check off list is much less pickier than some of the others I've heard. Most guys look for: 1) Body - Not too skinny, and not fat. A woman who is overweight can still be attractive if she makes up for it in the rest of this list, and if it doesn't bother her. 2) Face - most guys say they want the chest and the thighs, but they come next. 5) She doesn't have to be smart, but some guys care about this more than anything. These men are looking for wife material, and not some bimbo who is alimony payments waiting to happen. 6) Teeth. You can tell it bothers the OP a lot.
The sexiest woman is the woman that knows HOW to be sexy without being slutty. You can have big chicks that are sexy as hell. You can also have very attrictive looking women that I wouldn't be caught dead with. Serena Williams = sexy Paris Hilton = not sexy Women say it all the time that a man must be confident ...but a confident women is a showstopper. Mind you, none of this speaks to the question of 'Would I do her?'. Given a chance, a man would usually do anything that moves. Selma Hayak, to me, is the complete package because she doesn't overdo her hotness. But an average looking woman can be sexy as hell with the right dress and right attitude.
This. Of course, usually when women mature and grow up as people they decide looks don't matter at all. I am not sure if men are able to truly get to that point, being too visual. (which I find sad... most women are average and no one will stay young forever... most of us have to live in fear of not being lovable if we age or gain weight, and if we don't have any gay/bi tendencies we don't have that as an alternative) Anyway, guys, if you must be so picky about looks for relationships, but not when you just want to hit it, make sure you are open and up front with the lady about it, and be prepared for complications regardless. But, since you don't seem to have a problem with hitting it, then why is it a problem being in a relationship... unless you're just worried about what your friends will think of her?
"It's like riding a moped, isn't it? It's fun until your friends catch you with it.." Difficulty:medium
To answer the OPs question, no. If some hair on the arms make a girl unattractive then I guess so. It doesn't bother as much anymore.
I should have made myself clearer: this is a random girl i met who looked attractive when i first saw her. We texted each other and agreed to have no strings attached. The next time we met again, she dropped from a 8 to a 4.
I understand Isabel's post, but I'm having some trouble with plutoblue's. To my understanding, this thread was about whether the OP should keep someone he finds unattractive (for whatever reason and disregarding his own looks) as an f-buddy. Not sure where all this talk of dating is coming from. Of course if you're dating someone, you can have reasons beyond physical attraction. The question is whether or not you should feel physically attracted to someone who you have a strictly physical relationship with. I say that it's not a prerequisite, as long as you're honest with her about why she's around. I bring it up because plutoblue used the words "these guys" in reference to men who talk about unattractive girls and I want to know if she had a lot on her mind and felt that this thread was a close enough subject to unload on, or if she's criticizing the guys who posted in this thread.
