Q: Why do fat girls give great head? Spoiler A: Because they have to. I wouldn't break things off with her completely, just stop leading her on to think it's more than it is. You can pump the brakes on whatever you think she's expecting while still maintaining contact (hopefully physical) with her. Fat girls are fun and very permissive in bed. If you fed her a whole bunch of emotional s***, that was your bad and I don't know what to tell you. Back off slowly and carefully (it's only been two dates, dude, how deep could you possibly be?) and you might be able to keep her on the side while you talk to the other, hotter girls you see on campus. But if you really are the type of dude who needs advice on how to "break up" after two dates, all of this advice probably won't amount to much anyway. Congratulations on marrying a fat girl.
+ = "It's not you, I'm gay" Or you can just put her in the friend zone. I had a close female friend once who was a little bit (a lot actually) on the plus size. She would do anything for me even when she knew I had a gf. It's like having your own servant or something. Fat chicks make a good friend and probably have a good sense of humor.
If you want to have a casual relationship with this girl, just tell her you decided you don't want a girlfriend right now. She'll get the message. If you never want to see her naked (again?) just stop returning her calls or tell her that you're not feeling it anymore.
Only been a couple of dates so you're far away from bein committed to anything. End it now before her feelings get deeper.
Simple, just stop talking to her, don't worry about it and she'll get the picture. She doesn't own you!
No P90X option for her? It does seem kind of shallow of you..especially since you like her personality. It's unfortunate that you actually like her and reject her over physical attributes...but I understand that is how it works for the most part. But, in the end, you seem to basically be saying you would stay with her if she were hotter...which doesn't make you look like such a great catch yourself. There is no easy out on this one I think. You are going to hurt her no matter what. You semi-led her on and now you're looking for a fake reason to get out without actually telling her you won't be with her cause she's too overweight for you. Be a man and tell her the truth. You made your own bed. You should deal with the consequences of the truth imo.
Go down on her and just blow on it for 5 minutes and then come up and say "I hope you enjoyed that as much as I did". She'll never call you again.
word...but big girls need love too...and uh, its the 3rd date so you know what that means... if you do break it off, don't sugar coat it, but don't be a jerk either...it'll sting, but she'll respect you for it...
As someone suggested, tell her you're into larger women. That will make you look like much less of an *******, she might actually feel better about herself, and it will have the added side effect of blowing her mind in the process.
That's a very odd, bizarre thing to say, and could only have been learned through personal experience.
its not going to be pretty... if she's emotional she's going to be sobbing all over the place and if you have any soul in you .. you are going to feel like crap.. Happened to me once.. I was actually in and out of a relationship and started dating someone else. She wasn't fat and was actually decently attractive. She got really clingy while to be honest I just needed someone to take my mind off my other relationship. Things got physical really fast and she started calling me all the time, wanting to go to movies, and really wanted to take things serious. In fact she was so clingy that it was a huge turn off for me at the time. That's when I told her I was actually still getting over another relationship and actually might get back togehter with this other girl and that i still had feelings for this other girl.. Boy did things get ugly after that... I felt horrible... . worst part was (or best part) she still wanted to be friends and have constant sex all the time.. this went on for about 2 more weeks till I finally broke it off.. thinking back now. .WTF was I thinking???? DAMN .. If you only knew the things you know now back in highschool/college.
Tell her the truth. If you make up a more palatable excuse she might want to stay friends. And you don’t even deserve her friendship.
