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Another Relationship Thread

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by drumbum, May 11, 2011.

  1. tamericus

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    Sounds like this relationship is just about over.
     
  2. gah

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  3. RedRedemption

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    When in doubt, whip it out.
     
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    Wow... that was a fantastic post. Thank you for that. I'd rep, but for some reason the button isn't working.
     
  5. drumbum

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    Obviously no girl wants to deal with someone like that, but that's not to say that I'm inherently like that. I'm not, and don't plan to be. I just got out of my comfort zone when I transferred and that led to me being neurotic, illogical and as a whole just make dumber decisions.
     
  6. Invisible Fan

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    When 4 or 5 posts giving different reasons and conclusions makes sense, it usually means you're not giving us enough details.

    Sounds like you did ****ty stuff and got drunk when she didn't like it. It could be a control/power issue or a general concern because she's seen you drunk and we haven't. Plus, were you drunk at home or out of town/work city? Makes a big difference and regardless it sounds like she wasn't there with you.

    That "one time" thing about no sex wasn't just "one time" because it obviously bothered you enough to mention it.

    You're at another town, but we don't really know how you both are handling or approaching it. Maybe she's needy and high maintenance. Maybe she wants to get her career going and willing to dial back relationships to the point where this is okay for now. Maybe she really is boning other dudes.

    Your relationship sounds like a young one, and I don't see good things coming from it at this point even with a lot of unanswered details from you. Because you both sound young and you both are trying to conform to an idealized image by the other person when you both haven't discovered that it takes a lot of effort to change how you are (how you think, tick, bad habits) inside.

    Most people live and learn from it and decide to find better personality matches. But you can be one of those romantics who chance it and fight genetic destiny and go for something higher.

    If you roll on the latter, try not to spit out babies for 5 years, please?
     

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