I just wish these kind of things wouldn't have to happen to me you know? Better to not be in the situation at all than to try and get out of it.
No, but probably the most clever post in the past decade of the BBS went right over your German brain like a radical Islamist in an SR-71.
Think about it this way... gay guys are just as good as women at picking out attractive males. So you must be doing something right. I am sure he would appreciate knowing which way your door swings rather than doing something more embarrassing than he's already done. My suggestion is to show him a picture of a recent girlfriend/date and give him the information that way. There's no need to actually say the words, "I'm not gay" Good luck!
seriously... i have no idea why u tryna find a legit reason for him to stop doing the things he does... i'd straight up tell him.. stop touchin me.. i find it uncomfortable.. and stop callin me sexy... its creepy.. and if he does't get it then.. definitely get em fired.. u got the texts as proof to show to HR...
horrible idea...this guy knows more people there than the OP. Causing drama and getting the guy fired will just make for bad working conditions after it all goes down.
I am stunned by the number of people giving serious answers in this thread. I thought this was going to turn into another mayzar
Dude this is America. Wear revealing outfits that show off your better features and bend over in front of him every chance you get, then scream when he touches your butt and sue the company. Duh.
I think it is "gay" for you to pretend that you have an imaginary girlfriend. I would not be around this guy but if you have to be and he calls you "sexy" again, grow you a pair and tell him thanks but you don't swing that way.
If this guy is his superior it might make it easier than a straight out confrontation and make sure the OP still has a good working relationship with this guy.
I'm surprised at the amount of serious reponses I got as well and that's a good thing. Today he asked me to the movies at 9AM in the morning and I just said 'No'. Hopefully he gets the picture now...
You should have went. I would have been funny for us if he pulled the old hole in the bottom of the popcorn trick on you.
exactly. what could be easier than just saying "stop"? to me it is silly to have to qualify it by saying "i have a girlfriend so please stop hitting on me". just telling him to stop should be enough. he doesnt owe anyone an explanation for why he doesnt want another dude hitting on him.
Invite him over to play video games, then just come out and say "Know how I know you're gay," followed by something about him liking balls in his face or liking Coldplay.
