Wow, a single mom who just got evicted and hangs out at clubs and is probably banging some other dude and will be pregnant again in a month. She sounds like a great catch. I can certainly see why you're so upset she isn't texting you every 10 minutes....... Seriously, some of the single guys on this bbs just come off as so needy...
Personally, I think it sounds like you dodged a bullet, you shouldn't lent her any money though, oh well, lesson learned.....
Start charging interest on that $200 and send her a bill. Tell her you might be able to work something out.
This. And you shouldnt have given her that money unless it was a case where she left her wallet/card at home and would have paid you back immediately.
Word...and even then, it's not a good idea...Here's what you do: 1) Ask her why she's changed and not interested anymore... 2) Ask for your $200 back, and not in payments 3) Get her fired after she pays you back
The most subtle answer I can give... Spoiler Dude, you dodged a major bullet with this one. Being with someone shouldn't be that much work. Either they want to be with you or they don't. Don't try to twist and contort yourself into someone she wants. She should want you as you are. If she doesn't, time to kick her to the curb.
Worse Case: She is done with you . She has basically used you up . . .now she is done with you when she needs something again . . .she will be back but not for anything beyond forfilling her need. Upon meeting you . . maybe she decided you were not her type but their was no use in discarding such a useful person . .i.e. a good friend Rocket River
Have you tried to call and she didn't answer? Study: Women Always Answer Their Phones Unless They're Having Great Sex With Someone Else BLOOMINGTON, IN—A new study released Monday by sociologists at Indiana University found that women will always answer their telephones unless mind-blowing sex with a man other than the caller prevents them from doing so. The findings were consistent across all demographic groups in a sampling of 500 females between the ages of 18 to 35, which included women who were romantically involved with the caller but had requested some time apart to clear their heads, as well as women who had dated the caller briefly but assumed it was understood by both parties that the relationship had not worked out. "No matter who they were, or what their perceived or actual relationship with the male caller was, women who failed to pick up the phone were statistically all but certain to be deep in the throes of coital passion with one or more virile lovers at the time of the call," researcher Patrick Berger said. "In addition, a vast majority of the female participants we observed had seemingly forgotten all about the relationship they once had with the caller, and were, in fact, completely consumed by the vaginal gratification they were currently receiving." "A type of gratification they would hesitate to even call 'sex,' since it was so much more intense and transcendent than any kind of sex they had experienced before," Berger added. The study revealed that 80 percent of the time, women who declined to answer their phones were, at that very moment, being sexually pleasured by a man superior to the caller in terms of looks, genital endowment, and stamina. Researchers also found that a majority of women picked up the phone, examined the caller ID, and told their male lover "It's nobody" before continuing with sexual intercourse. In another 15 percent of cases, female research subjects had just journeyed to a land of pure sexual delight with another man and were, at the time the phone rang, smoking a cigarette while letting their fingertips graze over the unusually thick penis that had just brought them to, on average, four orgasms. The remaining 5 percent of non-answerers consisted of women who were stimulating their own genitals, either while talking on the phone to another man, instant-messaging another man, or simply imagining another man who had sexually turned them inside out on a recent occasion. "It's true that in a negligible number of cases, women did not answer because their cell battery had legitimately died," Berger said. "But in each instance, they had either failed to charge their phone because they'd spent the night in someone else's apartment, or had used up their battery's power sending pictures of their naked body to another man." The study emphasized that while women who failed to answer the phone were almost unquestionably with someone else enjoying the most volcanic sensual escapade they'd ever had, there was also the possibility that they were busy gazing deeply into another man's eyes, knowing and feeling a type of love they had never known or felt before. "In many cases, during the time of the call, the woman was spending the afternoon with the man at that museum she's always wanted to visit, afterward watching the sunset from the deck of the man's boat," said social psychologist Michael Corbin, a coauthor of the study. "In each case, the woman didn't want a ringtone ruining a moment of true spiritual connection with the first man she had ever really, truly loved with all her heart." "Sex, however, always occurred subsequently," Corbin added. According to the researchers, the findings of this latest study are fully consistent with their previous behavioral investigations. "Our prior research has already demonstrated that any communication between women and their old high school boyfriends will result in sexual relations and that a girls' night out invariably leads to sexual contact with multiple men met in bars," Corbin said. "We won't be surprised if instances of women getting a drink after work with that cool, funny male coworker they're always talking about yield similar results." The study also concluded that 99 percent of women who pick up the phone quickly and enthusiastically do so because they are expecting a call from another man. http://www.theonion.com/articles/study-women-always-answer-their-phones-unless-they,18254/
1. Ignore her 2. Treat her like crap 3. Lose your job 4. Become an alcoholic or drug abuser You must do one or all of the above to get her interested in you again.
