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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Tb-Cain, Oct 12, 2010.

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How often do you french kiss, no matter how brief?

  1. Every day

    14 vote(s)
    20.3%

  2. Every 1-7 days

    23 vote(s)
    33.3%

  3. Every 1-2 weeks

    12 vote(s)
    17.4%

  4. 2-4 weeks

    7 vote(s)
    10.1%

  5. A month or longer

    1 vote(s)
    1.4%

  6. Hardly ever

    9 vote(s)
    13.0%

  7. Never

    3 vote(s)
    4.3%
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  1. droxford

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    ...of somebody else.
     
    #21 droxford, Oct 12, 2010
  2. Lady_Di

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    i'm not really a kissing type so we just french kiss when we get down...i dont know if that is weird. i think hubby wants to be kissed more than i do. sometimes he is such a girl!
     
    #22 Lady_Di, Oct 12, 2010
  3. VanityHalfBlack

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    Fleshlight....
     
    #23 VanityHalfBlack, Oct 12, 2010
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    Is the OP a woman? Just asking, as it seems strange that the GUY is complaining because he wants to kiss more. Most of the time, it's the woman who wants more kissing.
     
    #24 ima_drummer2k, Oct 12, 2010
  5. Tb-Cain

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    OP is not a woman, but OP does enjoy affection.

    OP is not down with OPP.
     
    #25 Tb-Cain, Oct 12, 2010
  6. Prince

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    Honey, it's been seven days since we last french kissed, can you brush your teeth and let's do it now for our marriage to work?
     
    #26 Prince, Oct 12, 2010
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    This thread makes me depressed.

    I like to throw in a french kiss/ass grab/boob fondle basically every day when I'm in a relationship.
     
    #27 Franchise3, Oct 12, 2010
  8. Dubious

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    37 years .... freedom kiss only during the hotter sex. It does make it hotter and more intimate though. More ears and necks during the quickies. So, about two weeks.

    I'm kinda slobbery so I'm a little self conscious about it.
     
    #28 Dubious, Oct 12, 2010
  9. slcrocket

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    We're on every day, but it doesn't necessarily go anywhere from there (especially not while the wife is pregnant, as she is now). Been married for a little over six years. I'm pretty satisfied with the amount of kissing - it's the next steps that you could always use more of. :)
     
    #29 slcrocket, Oct 12, 2010
  10. Tb-Cain

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    So we talked...

    ...turns out that I was right there was something going on.

    Backstory...originally she wanted to live together. I was nervous that it would be the beginning of the end because I know how tough of an adjustment that can be. I was married for 14 years and survived those growing pains of learning how to live with someone.

    So, I put the breaks on and said I was happy with where we were.

    For her, the idea of living together was a huge leap of faith and she's been second-guessing ever since, thinking she was wrong to suggest it.

    Now that I've overcome my initial doubts, her faith has diminished.

    So, there's been all sorts of issues swirling around in her mind. To live together, to not live together, to rent, to own, my kids, the fact that she's never wanted to have kids, etc. etc. etc.

    So there's the update. Take notice when there is a sudden change. In my experience, it usually means something is up.
     
    #30 Tb-Cain, Oct 13, 2010
  11. Deckard

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    Something "going on" as with another guy, or something going on with how she feels about you? I sorta have the impression that it's option #2, but it was unclear. Good luck, either way. :)
     
    #31 Deckard, Oct 13, 2010
  12. droxford

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    Wow... so she had a million different serious issues swirling around in her mind and she didn't communicate her feelings with you?

    Who'd have expected that from a woman? :rolleyes: ;)
     
    #32 droxford, Oct 13, 2010
  13. Tb-Cain

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    Sorry it wasn't clear.

    No, not another guy (thank goodness) :) But just a lot of concerns about our future together, and I guess that without having resolved those concerns she subciously withdrew.

    We'll see what happens next. Relationships, and individuals histories, are always too complicated to boil down to a single post.

    And, those concerns are things we have discussed, but my personal history probably made me more nervous about other possibilities (like another guy).

    I appreciate the outlet.

    Thanks, CFs.
     
    #33 Tb-Cain, Oct 13, 2010
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    Never think like that.
     
    #34 RoxSqaud, Oct 13, 2010
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    It's over.
     
    #35 thadeus, Oct 13, 2010
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    Hate to be a downer... but yeah I think she wants out.
     
    #36 moestavern19, Oct 13, 2010
  17. JuanValdez

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    Don't know where you'd get that.
     
    #37 JuanValdez, Oct 13, 2010
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