agree 100%...for the most part i guess couples can gauge physical attraction by just looking, so it's likely the sex will be fine, but there's always those couples where the sex didnt turn out the way they expected. I think marriage is too big of a commitment to risk not being sexually compatible, as it's likely to lead to other problems within a marriage that'll blow it all up.
And I think a lot of that has to do with religious and family pressure. If you have made a personal choice to wait until marriage, I don't see any big problem with that, I would just be curious as to the motives for it. Virginity is a myth. There is nothing "sacred" about a woman's untouched cooter. Did Jesus talk extensively about virginity? Most of it is archaic BS that started around the time feudal lords decided they needed to treat women as property.
I'm glad my parents waited. I think that's a good part of why they had a strong 40-year marriage. Of course that makes moronic liberals upset, they think nothing is sacred then wonder why their marriages fail.
You'd be a lot happier if you let go of your bitterness. And the facts point to something else, I'm afraid. http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm
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As opposed to the moronic conservatives. They think marriage is sacred and should be denied people whose lifestyles they don't agree with. Then they wonder why their marriages fail when they're caught with same-sex prostitutes.
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hey, i never said i wanted an STD either.... It shouldnt be about being a conservative or liberal....to some people sex really isn't that important or they truly don't focus a lot on exterior beauty, so they'll have no issues waiting to have sex because they'll love that person mainly for other issues, which will make sex good, and that's fine. However, if you really value sexual chemistry and you're not trying sex out because someone else thinks you shouldnt, then you're only screwing yourself over. Is physical attraction or sex very important to you? cool. Not really? cool. Knowing what it's like before marriage? Cool too. The point is to be honest with yourself as to what you really want and need and to be on the same page with your significant other. It doesnt matter which side y'all take as long as you're both on that side, that is makes marriages work, not other BS based on pressure from others.
My girl likes to sit on the same side of the booth, so I have no choice. Plus I kinda like it. She also orders for me.
absolutely nothing. i never even thought about it before. but now, i'm going to be subconsciously looking for it every time i go out to eat.
Well anyways.. the point in there that I think was lost is that because of these decisions we've made.. we like to be close to eachother ie holding hands and sitting on the same side in a booth. It's important for us to show our affection in these ways because its the only physical affection we have right now.
as a fellow Christian, i feel like i have the right to ask if you give her the Christian Side Hug. I'm sorry, but I couldn't resist. You're a good dude.
