It was partially tongue in cheek but not really knowing the OP or his wife I can't say if his wife as always been one doing nice things for him and he has just been a thoughtless guy. There are plenty of situations where they wife is the one who is thoughtless.
There are a lot of situations, but generally speaking it isn't the wife who isn't kind while the husband is still pouring out affection, pining over his wife and trying to get her to show love to him in ways other than sex.
I don't know about generally speaking but I don't like to assume that the man is at fault. From what I've seen of divorces its about 50-50 whose fault it is.
Certainly, this post was created in jest. Please be assured that she is treated with respect and dignity. Denying access to the "raj mahal" is merely means to an end.
I'm know this is the hangout forum but whatever happen to sports talk man? can we leave that stuffs to Dr. Phil.com or whatever? J/k... I agreed with most posts in here. Try to work it out by talk things out with her first. Communication is the first and most important in a healthy relationship. I know my girl for about 10 yrs b4 we tied the knot. been married for almost 10 yrs now. Gone thru lots of crazy fights and arguments. It was bad but we stuck it thru letting each other calm down after fight and then talk it out. Pray the lord it's working.
"Raj Mahal". Omg. Okay, I'm done laughing now. I'm sure if that's how your play goes, then it's fine. But the fact that you use punishment to teach her a lesson because she created a scene is IMO, ridiculous. Sex should never be used as punishment, though I believe that punishment can be dealt out during sex, but that's a completely different conversation.
Please don't misunderstand me. I'm not laying fault with regards to why a marriage falls apart, just regarding this one specific issue. It tends to be women who are unhappy because a lack of affection outside of the bedroom. There are all sorts of reasons why a marriage falls apart that can be one or the other or both parties at fault.
I can't help but find it ironic that a poster "just" and "yank" in their moniker is giving advice on how to be more loving to your wife.
I always think of a quote I heard from some movie about commitment. You don't commit to something once. It's a conscious choice you make to commit to someone everyday. That is true commitment. If you are BOTH unhappy, the easiest solution really is to go your separate ways. If you both can't make the commitment to each other, then well...yeah. Do what you gotta.
you "love" your wife BUT.... and you're leaning towards bailing out... i mean, think about.... If you LOVE your wife, the "BUT"s reeeeealllly won't outweigh the reasons why you love her, dude. The grass is always greener on the otherside; all women, ahem, persons, have flaws. Major issue is her bio clock ticking and you are not ready. Time to have your TALK, again if necessary. It's only fair for the both of you to get this $hIt straight especially if it's going to be a deal breaker. In the meantime, supply your own protection. You never know... GL to the both of ya.
