I'm going through a similar situation. Keep your head up man. Life is way too short to be unhappy. Look forward to moving on. There's a lot of girls out there.
You're young, smart, and have a great career ahead of you...that right there lands you near the top of the totem pole. Youve got time on your side...yeah, it sucks when it doesnt work out with someone you like, but you need to look at yourself and realize what youve got going for yourself...and anyone that doesnt see that, doesnt deserve to be with you. Keep your head up...open up 2010 with a fresh start. Good luck.
Agreed. Don't be fooled by the theatrics of emotion. She's just trying to not be so cold about it. I know it's not this simple, but why is it that we have a tough time letting go of people who do not return our feelings? Person doesn't want you, so why should you want person? Relationship is a two way street - if you're not good for each other, both ways, then it's doomed from the start.
Wise words. Take this and run with it. Don't sweat man, one day you will look back and be grateful that you didn't settle. You will meet someone else no doubt about it!
You have so much upside. It might not feel like it right now, but you do. It wasn't your fate to be with her. You'll find someone hotter and smarter than her in 2010.
Also, I have no idea why my last post was in bold. I did however get a virus warning when I hit submit on that last post?
Dude....no one get's "dumped" after only 2 weeks of dating... Come on. You went on a few dates, she decided you weren't a match, then moved on. What's the big deal? It doesn't mean you're some kind of a scumbag, it just means you weren't a match. People have the right to be as picky as they want to be when choosing the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with. What is it with some guys on this bbs getting so attached to a women so quickly? Relax and take it slow. You can't possibly be in love after 2 weeks of knowing someone unless you're some naive 16-year old, which you clearly are not... And not everyone in the entire city of Cincinnati is taken. That's just silly. SNAP OUT OF IT.
Actually knew her for 6 months. We were pretty close friends, went on a few dates during this time, but stepped it up and got physical for the last month or so. I have no problem getting over it, but the feeling sucks. This is the first kind of any love life for me in about 5-6 years, so it's natural for me to feel this way, no matter how trivial it seems. I approach women and get numbers/dates all the time. This is the only one that lasted for more than one or two dates (so I don't count those) and we actually got close. So it hurts a little more. Call it bad luck, me choosing the wrong girls, or whatever. Thanks for the support of the Clutch BBS Hangout crew, though.. I rarely post but I check the Hangout and Rox discussion ~10 times a day. lol. Here's to 2010, new year, boats and ho's (just watched Step Brothers)
Hi, Ms. Stripper...I am a MD. Nice to meet you. Should snap you out of that funk pretty quickly Seriously, things will get better
I was thinking the same thing...Well, women aren't nothing but b*tches and hoes....I keed... That's one of the reasons I love Dallas...no shortage of beautiful women...I can't imagine living a place with limited access to women, but given my slim job prospects here, I may be in your boat soon...
like i said.. Dumped is a relative term. Y'all have probably been through long relationships and such. I consider this "dumped" because we fell hard for each other then she quit, even after a few weeks. I understand it's small on the grand scale of things relationship-wise.
Don't worry man, the early part of any relationship burns the hottest.... Just realize you will be ok...... DD
