i gave my ex some money but she really needed it bad, and she also helped me out financially alot when we were together, so i felt i needed to repay her.
Well, you said ANY scenario. I have a very good friend who is in Japan right now. I trust him as much as I trust anybody. Were my wife over in Japan right now and suddenly had an emergency that I couldn't help with, I would have no problem with her accepting money from my friend in her time of need. I think people that are emphatically stating no to this question really haven't given it enough thought to come up with a scenario when it would be okay.
Other than the obvious frustrations, it would make me feel as if I was not handling my responsibilities as a man.
99.9% NO!!! .1 reserved for that unforseen situation where she may need to accept in a dire emergency.
In that scenario, the family is receiving the money, not the woman herself. So, I don't know that counts. I'll answer No, generally. But, I'm married. I think it's a different situation if you're only dating. You haven't formally committed, so your girlfriend still needs to look after herself. Also, when a woman has children from a previous relationship and the father is forced to pay child support. If I was married to a woman in this situation, I'd probably prefer to cut the other guy out by not taking his money, but I may take it as well.
Yes and it happens all the time. If your wife / girl is gainfully employed to someone other than a family member then she is likely getting money from another man.
I gave my ex some money for daycare and stuff for her kids (not biologically mine but I love em')...I don't know or care if she told her sorry excuse for a husband or not. If I were broke and my girl needed some money and a male friend LENT it to her, my manhood wouldn't be threatened provided I or she paid it back in a timely fashion. As far as the guy wanting some "service" for his $, if I didn't trust her I wouldn't be with her. It's really that simple.
I have no problem with it... except for when she was in the last stages of her pregnancies, Mrs. rimrocker has been stripping for close to 30 years now. Those tips saved us from financial ruin several times... and she always comes home to me.