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A conundrum

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Fatty FatBastard, Nov 2, 2009.

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Well?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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    27.3%
  1. Nice Rollin

    Nice Rollin Member

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    wow. well said

    can i change my vote?
     
  2. cson

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    Alright Fat, you stay right here a minute, Ima ask my wife if I can go out w/ her.....
     
  3. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    I take it that you have never been stood up before, because if you had, you wouldn't even be asking this question.

    What's one date going to hurt other than some cash out of your wallet? I would go out, pay for her meal, be nice and polite and then not call her. Or I guess you could call her a couple of days later and say that you just want to be friends and not anything serious romantically. And make sure that the next time, you don't get yourself in a situation where you have to go out with her like a date-date. Either let her know up front, you aren't interested in dating or that you will be just friends going out (which would also imply separate checks).
     
  4. droxford

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    I disagree with this a bit. True, you're not in any relationship with her, and your obligations are minimal, but they're not non-existent. I think common decency dictates that you at least communicate to her that you don't want to do the date.

    ....(assuming that you want to uphold common decency, that is).
     
  5. droxford

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    I agree with this statement from Manny.

    ...

    wow... it feels wrong just typing that.
     
  6. Lynus302

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    Mutual friends = don't blow her off.

    And don't string her along.
     
  7. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    Eh, we can get along as long as you look one way when I talk about a certain something and I do the same when you talk about a certain something.
     
  8. macalu

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    If you're not into her, don't waste your time (AND money) or hers. what's worse for her? hearing from you that you're not interested before going on the date or hearing from you that you're not interested after you've wined and dined her? i go with the latter.
     
  9. SwoLy-D

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    WTF? :confused:

    CONTRADICTORY.
     
  10. tmoney1101

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    What's wrong Swoly, about to shed a tear and then he pulled the 180? ;)
     
  11. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    Man up, and take her out.....no one is holding a gun to your head to sign the marriage license.

    DD
     
  12. bigtexxx

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    be careful not to sire any children with her
     
  13. moestavern19

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    Be careful not to seem too eager.

    [​IMG]
     
  14. SwoLy-D

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    ^ No way. You had to be doing the AIR GUITAR thing, man. :( So disappointing. So disappointing...
    LOL! Nah. He said "be nice" and then he said "don't call her." That's silly. :D I laughed, if anything.
     
  15. DudeWah

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    How does a guy get stood up?? (serious question..)
     
  16. Lynus302

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    Umm....same way as a woman?

    :confused:
     
  17. Rashmon

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    Try any number of the free p*rn sites.
     
  18. RedRedemption

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    Casual dating is easy. Just don't let her get too close with you, don't act like a token boyfriend.
     
  19. updawg

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    you never know, you may be able to show your grandkids this thread someday, so go for it.

    If you pass, you can always come hangout with nerds on the bbs


    also, wtf is with that pic up there. socks and sandals = dork and thats jsut for starters
     
  20. Hmm

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    well this one certaintly sounds like a "conundrum"... not at all like the previous so-labeled situation you previously brought to our attention...


    you know, I just don't know how Fatty manages to live his carefree life amidst multiple "conundrums" the way does.. one of his many fabled gifts I imagine..
     

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