Ok, I've been dating this girl for a month now (met her online). Her profile said she is 30 turning 31. Everything seems fine and dandy. One day, I'm at her house and she leaves some insurance info on her dresser. I can't help but to look... and finds out she's turning 35 (a year older than me). The relationship is going fine, but would you confront her on this or just play like you don't know anything? I know girls don't like to tell their age, but I'm a little upset about her lying.
Let it go. If the relationship develops, she'll tell you eventually. Somethings aren't worth getting all bent out of shape over. IMO
90% of women will lie about their age if they can....don't make this a big deal. You sneaking into her private letters is the problem you should be posting about.
Be careful bro...you comfront her about her age and she will turn that into "why are you looking at my private stuff"...it will backfire! Plus its only a month no biggie she would have told you the truth in a bit more time.
You have to call her out because it is actually a HUGE gap in age. You have to remember that a 4 year difference is a lot. Especially when you are talking about a 31 year old to a 35 year old
Look at the upside- she can run for president, and she will get senior discounts WAY earlier than you planned on!
It is a private letter from the insurance company to the person addressed, I leave my bank statements on my study room desk all the time, I don't expect ANYONE to go through it, not my friends, nor a girl I am seeing...
this is what i'm wondering also. as for the insurance paper... don't lie, most of you would've taken a look. alwellz... i'll just let it go for now.
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They do it all the time. It's like guys lying about how much money they got or how long the schlong is. Many many women lie about their age and their weight, too, but that doesn't they will be dishonest with the serious stuff. You are good to go, she is legal.
Sucks that she lied but it's one that can be understood. Women are paranoid about that stuff. That doesn't mean she'll lie about everything else.
