Hello campers. I have often had acces to all the "hampton" hot spots. this memorial day weekend is no so much different. I am all on a list and VIP like if I so choose to be for tomorrow. the seasons opener at concious point (the place that that gruberman chick drove her rover into a crowd while hanging with her celebrity fiends) The place is gonna be packed, and I usually dont go to these functions. however my Cuz is trying to drag me. Now I know the hottest women on the planet will be there, and sure there is "action" to be had, but i am like SOOO tired. i hardly feel the energy to flirt with normal chicks let alone models. and be in one of those "got to be seen" environments. so I get in free, and Im all sorts of VIP with a free bottle and everything. (my Cuz is close friends with the promoters)should I go and meet my destiny so I can tell more stories to my grand kids, or just go to a few "local" bars and have a decent un assuming time. this is the basic question high effort high energy high reward vs doing the easy thing getting the easy fun and the lower reward thoughts?
Dude, Go for the high reward. How often do you get a chance like that? Don't cope out and go for the easy thing, when you can do that whenever you want. Even if nothing comes up of it, you can just do the easy thing next weekend. This seems pretty simple to me, low energy level or not. B
Your post reminded me of this classic....... <center> <b> The "In" Crowd </b> </center> <i> I´m in with the "In" crowd I go where the "In" crowd goes I´m in with the "In" crowd And I know what the "In" crowd knows (How to have fun!) Any time of the year, don´t you hear? (How to have fun!) Dressin´ fine, makin´ time We breeze up and down the street We get respect from people we meet They make way day or night They know the "In" crowd is out of sight I´m in with the "In" crowd I know ev´ry latest dance When you´re in with "In" crowd It´s easy to find romance (And we work out!) At a spot where the beat´s really hot (And we work out!) If it´s square we ain´t there We make ev´ry minute count Our share is always the biggest amount Other guys imitate us But the original's still the greatest We got our own way of walkin' We got our way of talkin´ (Gotta have fun!) Any time of the year, don´t you hear (Gotta have fun!) Spendin´ cash, talkin´ trash Girl, I´ll show you a real good time Come on with me and leave your troubles behind I don´t care where you´ve been You ain´t been nowhere till you been in with "In" crowd </i> Mango
Go so you can meet your destiny and have more stories to tell us. Honestly, I hate that type of thing. If you feel like going, go. If you don't, don't.
I am even more tired now grrr I better get a red bull in me or something oh and the Hilton ho's will deffinately be there. they always seem to be there. by the way if you are a stalker, I am actually sitting in a building in Bridgehampton on butter lane. No more than 1,000 feet well maybe 1,500 from their house. Well their family house, but its where they stay when they are out here. any hoo my normal bars are nothing to sneeze at, its not like im koping out. hmm we will see and i may even report back.
For what it's worth, go where your real friends are...Models are nothing special..I was a model for 3 years, and as such around female models all the time, and the only thing they have in common is that they're tall, thin, and young, and drink water like crazy. Aside from that, the women I was around when I was modeling were no more fun than women anywhere, except there was a little more drug use, and sex. But, seriously, a lot of the sterotypes don't apply..they are no more stupid/sexy/etc. than women of the same character anywhere...The whole scene IS very superficial, though, kind of like " Oh, darling, we're having a little do, and you simply MUST attend"..and not even noticing if you don't...very fake...and words like "fabulous" and " exciting" fly fast and furious...So, if that's your scene, cool, but I'd have more fun with people I really like.
Jag, unfortunately that kind of scene is impossible to excape out here. even at the bars i hang at there are models and directors and promoters Bla Bla Bla. The hamptons are very foo foo, very fake and well exceedingly pretentious. and yeah I used to date a model. she was pretty cool because she had to have personality. she mostly did underwear for things like sears. and had curves. I dated her at school, so i rarely met her model friends, but they were typical of what populates my town during summer. Well I did end up going. left the house at 10PM returned home around 8AM. Not a bad night. there were just tons of hotties.and all of the typical hampton starlet club whores were there. Liquor flowed, Coke dissapeared and clothes came off. my only problem with the club was that it was too packed to dance untill very late, and then only in the VIP room. That was a fun way to end the night though. and I will never understand why more men dont dance. I love to dance i am good at it, and I am usually one of 3 guys up there with 12 or more women. I was deffinately freakishly tired, and being the only person that wasnt stoned or high, I was just thankfull I was wasted. After hours perty till 7 was kinda cool. them women were mostly gone by 5:30 and there was entirely too much drugs. there were 2 fun russian chicks there that did well to entertain me. all in all I had a good time. I only spent $120 so I feel lucky and I have tonight and tomorrow for my usual haunts. woo hoo. good band tonight. was it worth not getting to sleep till 8?? well probably not. do i have any stories out of it for my grandkids? sure, but Since I have never asked my grandpa about his sex life I doubt my future imaginary grandkids would either. PEACE