I need some advice. There is this girl in my school that I've liked for basicially the whole school year. I'm not sure if she likes me. I'm also not sure if she knows that I like her. How can I tell if she likes me or not? I also am too nervous to tell her that I like her. Can anyone give me any advice?
First of all, you can't be too nervous to talk to her! Get the courage to talk to her and let her know what a nice guy you are. DO IT THIS WEEK!!!! Your natural charm will come out and she'll see it, or not and you'll get dissed! Either way you gotta find out somehow, right? Give it a shot and start talking, what have you got to loose?
You're screwed. If you check her out, she probably notices...so don't stare. You won't find out unless you talk to her. Basically what mr_oily said. She's probably not going to talk to you, so do something.
If you can muster the balls to talk to her, then ask her out. If not, try punching her arm and throwing spitwads at her.
Don't EVER assume she likes you, first of all. Don't think "she doesn't like me", unless she says, "Oh themoandfroshow, i like you dahling" that means she couldnt care less. With that being said, keep workin on her. They break sooner or later
I don't know where some of you get your "female handling" skills. But I must say, it is quite entertaining.
Yo, what up baby? You want to take ride in one of my krunked up cadillacz?! ...But seriously, you should give these guys a break, they are GUYS! ... What allmighty opinion do you have gal?
Well, on most cases (me, and my friends, and others I have been exposed too) If a girl likes you. She makes it knows. She shows up in places you are often. Gives fleeting glances, ya know, all the flirty stuff that we females are taught @ an early age . How you approach the girl all depends on her in particular. Some girls like the more forward guys who just come out and talk to them, and ask them out upfront. Others like a guy who gradually gets into things. As in, pay attention to her. If you see her carying something heavy, ask her if she needs help, andything to make your presence known, over and over again. There are lots of other ways, but you really just have to watch, and find out her personality first. Anyway, thats a tidbit off the shelf of "Susan's advice". .
My Advice: Stay in School. Work your ass off. Get your degree. Party and have fun! Girls are much easier to handle after the first year of college!
How is it entertaining that in your next post you say, "Some girls like the more forward guys ... and Others like a guy who gradually gets into things...but There are lots of other ways, but you really just have to watch..."?! When most people here just said talk to her I mean, some guys are more foward , some gradually get into things. I mean there are lots of other ways, but you really just have to watch?! Right? I personally think it should be animalistic, down right barking like a dog...is that wrong?
Oh please, you know Indian burns and wet wads of paper stuck in their hair is what really gets a girl to notice you. Hey mo, you want to be real slick get her some of those valentine smarties(you know the kind that say "be mine" and ****) and some cheap flowers from walmart and put em on her desk. Hell yeah. And don't forget to tell that she's grown ... more beautiful that is. Oh and if that doesn't work, offer to give her a massage. No girl can pass up a massage hehehe.
Ms. Exotic Eyes is right. It all depends on the girl. First of all,just be yourself. Don't try and act like someone you aren't, but at the same time keep your cool. In other words remain relaxed and just talk to her. Look at it this way, what do you have to lose?
Get a T-shirt made that says: I LOVE (put her name here) Write her name all over your notebooks. Get a tattoo of her name and show it to her. Ask LHutz to write a poem for her.
Just do it! I know it hurts sometimes when someone you like rejects you. But would you want to risk something that could be great because you're afraid of getting rejected? Maybe if you talk to her a little more you can get a better feel for things. Follow any signals she gives (aka, touching your arm or laughing at anything you say....flirty stuff, you know) and just take it from there. Above all, be yourself! Good luck!
Yeah. I'm like really shy around girls, but I talk to her a lot though, considering that I'm shy around girls. I am just like really nervous when I talk.
