...I go to court tomorrow to see if the judge will throw out the division of custody and estate in my divorce. There will be a different judge presiding. The whole thing was so one sided, it was a joke. It was supposed to be an uncontested divorce(we both agree to the division), but she broke off contact w/ me and wrote in what she wanted to. Basically I was left with just the shirt on my back. Not only did she keep everything in the house that we acquired together, she even sold some stuff that belonged to my parents. I kept my clothes, my books, and my car. She kept the house, all the furniture, including all the appliances, the big screen Hitachi (I sure miss that), two computers, all the exercise equipment, all my tools, except my socket set(had it in my car), all the DVD's, and she has custody of my son 90% of the time. She also wrote in that she would choose the insurance for my son, and I would pay for it. Of course she got the most expensive one she could find that she could have herself on. I found a better ins. for cheaper, but she couldn't add herself to it, so she refused it. Oh, and on top of that, she stuck me with ALL the credit card bills. I didn't have a problem paying all the bills, because they were consolidated, but I told her that I would take care of them as long as she kept the house and mortgage. She sold the house and kept 70% of the sale, and wrote in that I keep the consolidation. She always said that she wouldn't keep my son from me. Well...I've been the one taking him to church every Sunday, but when I asked her if I could take him to mass on Ash Wednesday guess what happened? You got it...she said no. When I ask her if he can spend a night w/ me, she says absolutely not. She wouldn't even give me makeup days on days that she would keep him because he was "sick". I got his medical records and spoke to his doctor. He was not incapable of spending the time w/ me. Enough of my rant. By this time tomorrow, I'll be before a judge. If the judge doesn't throw it out, my lawyer said that he'll immediately file a motion to modify, so God willing, something positive will come out of this...
I hope of all things that might get changed you get more time with your son. I can only imagine how difficult that must be. Keep fighting. That judges original decision was crazy.
My son has always been and will always be my top priority. I would gladly give up all the material goods I have to get to spend more time with my son.
A couple of pics...one w/ me and my son, and one w/ my son and Santa. Both taken around X-mas 2001. I have sooooo many snapshots of us that I wouldn't know where to start scanning. These are some pics I sent out to family and friends.Me and my son
Good luck man, I hope it all works out. Your ex is so wrong for what she is doing. I just can't understand where some people find the capacity to do such things.
Good luck man! I have a son of my own, so I know how it would feel if I was to be seperated from him.
You definitely seem to have things in the proper perspective & I truly hope everything works out to the benefit of your son. It saddens me that some adults can act so selfish (like your ex) & not think of the best interests of the children involved. Prayers.
Mr Friend DOM lost custody of his child this year. He was married to a hot chick, co-owned a pizza joint, and had a great child. Life was good in Buffalo. Then he found out his wife was sleeping with his partner at the Pizza place. For 6 months she had been cheating on him. He lost custody and now the child lives in poverty in the bad part of buffalo. Life can be cruel and unfair.
If you need me to umm, how do I say? Bump Her? I'm you're man. I hope there aren't any feds or law officials, i'm just being sarcastic. Man that pisses me off
