Holy crap man. She sounds like an absolute lunatic. I know you've got a ton of emotion/feelings invested in the relationship, but Christ. That's not acceptable behavior AT ALL. Sheesh. Has she always been prone to doing stuff like that or is it recent?
Thanks to my friend Leg (lej) for making me aware of this thread. Bro ham, I honestly thought this was a joke in the beginning but I now see you are being serious & are a bit green to a few things & obviously seriously in love with this girl. So I will now give my advice on what you should have done & what you should do now. You got my respect for jumping in to take the blows for your girl but the moment she started whilin you should have grabbed her by the hair, which would put her at your hip & drug her out of the club. I have never hit a woman & never would so don't misunderstand what I am saying but you needed to reestablish yourself as the alpha male & let her know clearly you're not playin that s&%$. What happened has happened, I don't know how you move on from here, I can pretty much guarantee she does not feel the same way about you as you do about her. As much as that sucks it is the truth my man. I am big on communication though so I would say sit down with her & let her know your feelings from A-Z in a calm manner. Your demeanor will be muy importante though. Be firm but yourself. You run the conversation & see where it goes. I can pretty much guarantee you are not a big strayer because a player would never let this happen in the first place my man.
I don't think this will be a 1 time thing. But even worse, I'd suspect that she'd get physical with your kids should you ever choose to have any. Kids add joy but they also add stress and have been known to push some buttons. I know it's hard but I think you have to walk away. Spend your alone time talking to God. He will guide you to someone even better. I know that's hard to believe right now but it is true.
Whoa. Sorry I doubted anything... I think we shall hear from Sir Connery... <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/3FgMLROTqJ0&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/3FgMLROTqJ0&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> I mean... your scenario "would merit." My goodness... at some point self defense is in order. Get out of this relationship.
