Just Proposed

I think it's time for women to start proposing to men. It's only the fair thing to do.

 

A metal detector went off on me while I had the ring in my pocket when me and my now wife were going to the Atlanta Aquarium. My mother-in-law was right, I should have just got down on my knee and proposed to her right then. Ugh.

 

Man, you seem so unsure of yourself and little to no self-confidence.

She seemed to say yes, but then you immediately are like, "If you say no I understand"? WTF kind of nonsense is that? Then you ask, "Should I go back to my place tonight"? What? You just asked this woman to be your wife and then you want to go back home? Something is extremely weird about all of this.

Hate to be the party pooper, but it seems to me you are really trying to force this relationship to the next level when there is no reason for it go there. Proposing marriage doesn't fix problems, it creates new ones.

 

lol His story was "fixed" but I agree anyway.

 

I had no idea this trend was so popular. Or maybe it's a trend that's only on a Rockets BBS .

Yet, what is going on with people proposing when their relationship is rocky? That is exactly the time you DO NOT propose, lol.

Congratulations.... maybe... but really think about this man. This is the same chick that was wishy-washy not even a few weeks ago.

 

Just checked your last thread. In less than 3 weeks, y'all have gone from breaking up to proposing.

You should've stuck to your guns from the last thread. History typically shows that these almost never end well.

 

I had a woman propose to me. She didn't get down on her knees or anything but just aksed me if I wanted to get married. I said no and that ended the relationship.

 

Realjad;

Good luck. Congratulations if things work out and if they don't don't get too down on yourself.

 

Oh, lol.

Either way, if he broke up with her 3 weeks ago why is he proposing to her now? Does he think the ring is going to make things magically better?

 

We went to visit a friend in NYC a few weeks ago and I decided this would be the perfect time to propose. I considered I would get checked in a few places (airport, maybe Rockefeller Center - where I planned to propose, etc). I carried the ring around town in my sunglasses case in case we went anywhere w/ a metal detector and figured I could put it through the scanner. Taking out a ring box would be a dead giveaway.

I ended up proposing in Central Park before the surprise could be spoiled.

 

I agree...proposing DOES not work out your previous problems. What you need to do is to continue to work the problems out and when you guys are happy for a while, then you can propose.

Otherwise, good luck!

 

You should have just texted her in italics broseph. Get with the times.


On the serial though, a chick waits her whole life to be proposed to... I mean its like the most exciting thing that could ever happen to them. So I don't know what to tell you what that means if she just fell asleep not long after.

 

The best sex I ever had was the night I proposed.

that said: we did fall asleep on our wedding night. lol. in our defense, the party moved to the wedding suite (had multiple rooms) and some people just wouldn't leave. that was one of the "note to self" moments: Don't let the party into the wedding suite.

 

I had no idea there would be metal detectors. I actually made it through the metal detectors at the CNN center later in the day without it going off.

What was really funny was we had gone to the mall like 2 weeks before we went on this trip, which was for her 21st B-day, and she wanted to go look at Kay's to try on the engagement ring that she wanted for the millionth time and was pissed because it was gone because I had already bought it 2 days earlier. It was a great weekend though.

 

The best sex I've had was after a fight.

 

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WTF is that...she just rolls over and falls asleep? crazy...

 

The best sex I've ever had was with an ugly girl.

She was so involved in it . . . so present, so grateful.

 

99% of the time.. your gut feeling is right.

You're already at a point you might as well go for it, but don't get played. If it doesn't work then let it be and move on. Don't force it.

 

Ok, smartass me says run...

But so does rational me...so...run away...seriously...