Ok so you've been dating for a long time or you've been married a long time, your in a regular routine and haven't talked to each other much.. when you do it's routine things. Fact of the matter is women love to talk about themselves, it always enlightens that spark again. So to keep a routine while making sure it doesn't get dull, take 10 minutes and let her have her thing. What are some special questions you can ask her to get her talking about herself and feeling like she's in a conversation. When you first start a relationship it's easy you just go over the basics (dreams,goals,fav color,hobbies ect..ect..ect..). What are good questions to get her talking later on??
It's been used so many times she'd probably reply "Neither, lets have another baby".. so thats a negative
I always like to open with "Don't you think Henry Cabot Lodge should have accepted Wilson's Fourteen Points and not stood in the way of ratification of the Treaty of Versailles?" Then, once you've got THAT ball rolling, you make her choose sides in the crunchy vs. creamy peanut butter debate. If she says creamy, you dump her commie butt at the next bus stop.
Well i've been with my fiance for two and a half years and i think the only thing we talk about consistently is sports. Why? Because every day there's a whole new crop of things to talk about. Today it was the East vs. the West this year and how flukey the Hornets seemed to be last season. I guess there just comes a point where two people in a relationship just get bored talking about themselves. Thats when having similar interests become extremely valuable.
Ask her opinions about anything...anything you know enough to talk about. It's always easy to go and do something she enjoys...you'll find that when you are doing something she thinks is fun, she'll open up even more
