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Ever have a crush on a buddy's girl?

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  1. countingcrow

    countingcrow Member

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    If so, did you ever tell her?

    If yes, what happened?

    This girl I'm dating said my buddy told her this past weekend that he was attracted to her. He was inebriated, but it still irks me that he had no qualms about telling her. She told me that night, but I let it slide. I'm trying to figure out if I should end my friendship with this guy or not. It's a little weird because I work with the guy. I once was attracted to a buddy's girl years ago but I never said anything to either of them out of respect.
     
  2. Uprising

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    One of my buddies grabbed my girls ass twice one night at the bars, I had no idea till she told me.

    Needless to say, I confronted him about it and told him if he was anyone else I'd knock the living **** out of him. (he had been drinking)
     
  3. Apollo Creed

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    So incredibly beyond inappropriate. He brought it up because he wanted to gauge her response to see if he had an in. Scumbag.

    You need to drop this guy from your life, pronto. He is not your friend.
     
  4. moestavern19

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    That violates numerous rules of the Guy code.


    I suggest you ruin his life.
     
  5. Master Baiter

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    Everyone has had a friend like that. They are all pieces of **** and should rot in the fiery pits of hell.
     
  6. drumbum

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    Give me name/number/place of work and I'll take care of it.
     
  7. Franchise3

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    That doesn't sound like a very good friend. Actually, that doesn't sound like a "friend" at all!
     
  8. AntiSonic

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    Yeah. I wouldn't even go after a friend's ex, much less his current girlfriend.
     
  9. Jeremiah

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    Bros before Hos. Drop his ass.
     
  10. TMac640

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    I had a friend like that once too. He tried to badmouth me behind my back and she told me about it. He never apologized for it and we went on a 3 month hiatus, that was just a few weeks ago lifted because we had a man to man talk about it.

    Sure, he might do it again. Yet, this is a one and done deal. If he blows his second chance in the future, there will be no inviting back into the friends circle.
     
  11. CharlieMurphy

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    Is this you?
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  12. TMac640

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    With the above being said, sure. I'm 99% sure everyone has. It's the degree of the crush that can ruin friendships though. For example, by best friend's girlfriend is attractive and I would definitely hit it. Does that mean I'm going to break up his relationship and lose a friend of 12 years? No.

    I guess what you would say is "passing" crushes are no biggie. Like "yeah I'd tap it, but it's off limits, so it's off limits." end of story.
     
  13. geeimsobored

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    Depends on the circumstances but in a lot of situations I agree. It really depends on the personality of the friend. I can see instances where I might let it slide and others (which have happened before) where'd I'd say **** off.
     
  14. AntiSonic

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    There's a big difference between "crush" and "fap material." The former is just bad form and borderline creepy.
     
  15. v3.0

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    ummm, you're using that phrase in the wrong context...


    I'd ask the friend "Do you believe in in Ménage à trois" and gauge what he says.
     
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    Oh hell no dude! I think everyone has had a chub for your boy's girl but tell her about it is f'ed up. Im thinking he told her b/c he actually thinks she might like him. For real though, show him some trick or two!

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    I wouldn't even consider hooking up with a homie's ex. Needless to say I think it's fugged up to have a crush on a buddy's girl. Who does that?
     
  18. Lil Pun

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    Can you think a buddy's girlfriend/wife is attractive?

    One of my friend's is always showing me naked pics of his wife and she is attractive. I even went to the strip club with them and she got up on stage and did her thing. I mean I don't want to hook up with her but she is damn fine.
     
  19. tinman

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    Just curious, is your friend's name Mr Jones?
    :cool:
     
  20. Rocketeer

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    This is against the "Bro Code" man. You know that.
     

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