you say you don't want to lose her as a friend but the problem is you don't really want to be her friend. you want to be WITH her. so you'll string yourself along in the hopes that one day she'll see you for the great guy you are. take it from experience, it's not going to happen. at least not as long as she thinks she's got you wrapped around her finger.
yea but I don't want to like the girl I just want to be her friend... I've tried not talking to her but its really hard. I actualyy got involved with another not related to her in any way but the reason I had to end it was becuz my old feelings wouldn't die. pics soon as soon as I can get to a computer... I'm currently on the road using my phone.
Thats actually kinda funny because my xbox live gamer tag is The MexiMan and i made her an account called The MexiWoman for when she would come so we could play some together...
ok now post a pic of you (no homo) then we'll tell you if you're out of #1 girl's league. I do see why you're wanting #1 over #2 though, the pics tell a thousand words.
Forget this whole "friend zone" bullpoop. It's just a stupid rule that some loser made up. I say go for both of them. If you're can't score with your friend, then there wouldn't be any "I'm married to my best friend" stuff you hear people say. I've known girls who's made her intentions clear about just being friends and all that crap. Just make the right move, and she's yours. Same thing happened to me, and turns out all I gotta do was make a move.. unfortunately for her, I'm already dating someone now huahaha. Go for both of them. If you get them both, then choose. Not a hard decision.
LOL, man, times sure have changed since my tail chasing days... BTW, the 2nd chick is hotter than the 1st chick.
I was thinking the same thing...She looks like she likes to have fun and such...You never know, a threesome may be in your future...
I don't think the friend->girlfriend route works if she's clearly stated that she views you as a friend. The ones who say they married their best friend, etc probably started off with a platonic friendship. Personally, I think if you try to stay friends while still having feelings for her, you're setting yourself up for a lot of heartache. If you can't get over her, then confess your feelings and see if she'll at least give dating you a shot. If you go out with her friend without getting over her, you'll still be wondering what it'd be like to be with her which will lead to a huge break up or a threesome.
Yeah, #2 looks nicer to me, but it's not all about the looks. If you keep dating her, try to avoid partying drunk with #1 and keep the contact minimal. It's time to close that chapter as best as you can.
#2 is prettier Since i'm a chic I will tell you what I think, but I could be wrong... When I used to date, if a guy liked me and we just stayed friends it was because I thought he was ugly. So, she probably doesn't find you attractive and I doubt that will change.
well that's gonna be hard cuz on thursday night it will be #1's birthday so were all gonna go get drunk and clubbing... maybe if there will be a threesome that would be the most likely scenario.
