From my gf of 10 months. Said the relationship was no longer working for her and her kids. (from previous relationship natch) Anyway. I am not so upset that the relationship is over, as admittedly there were some areas of disagreement. I will miss the kids greatly and with all my heart... Anyway, this isn't a "relationship advice seeking thread". No my purpose is twofold, to tell you that if you are going to break up with someone have the decency to do it in person. And 2....she is a big Spurs fan...so if the Rockets destroy the Spurs tonight, I will feel vindicated and as if the Powers that Be in the Universe feel my pain and are on my side. A Spurs win indicates the Universe is a random and chaotic place devoid of kindness, justice and hope. That is all.
Sorry you hear it I hope, at least, there were no "ugly" circumstances that contributed to your breakup. Hang in there.
I once broke up with someone through a long email. She lied to me about her grandmother being ill so I would come see her, however, so whatever...
This never would have happened if you weren't a Major Malcontent. even still, that letter ain't right. 10 months? she's a weasle for not saying it! also, she could have made her point without bringing the kids into it. As Emmanual Kant would say, sounds like the kids were used as a means to her end, which is disrespectful to them. And, not meaning to get religious or anything, but if Dikembe Mutombo Mpolondo Mukamba Jean Jacque Wamutombo actually does exist, he will make sure the Rockets beat the Spurs for you tonight.
Only once did I break up with someone not in person. She lived 70 miles from me and wouldn't answer the phone for a week, so I just left a voicemail. It wasn't anything serious and we'd only been dating a few weeks, but still. Later, I found out she was more than a little nuts forr multiple reasons, so I didn't feel as bad.
I broke up with someone using an infomercial. Anyway sorry to hear that and good hunting looking for your next GF. I feel the same way anytime the Spurs beat the Rox.
I had her sister break the news to her, after I slept with her sister. A Spurs fan is a foul creature almost equal to the diabolical Mavericks fan. Good luck to you.
