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UK: 50 Babies a Year Born Alive After Abortion

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout: Debate & Discussion' started by MadMax, Nov 28, 2005.

  1. Sishir Chang

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    I'll back up Cesar's point and say that that was eloquently said. The point I'm raising though is in regard to what is the legal basis of abortion that currently states that a fetus is part of the women's body so that is the argument that has to be addressed if abortion is to be outlawed as opposed to saying that a certain percentage of abortions are botched so the procedure should be outlawed.
     
  2. MadMax

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    i've never read a legal argument that says a fetus is part of the woman's body. it's always been about the viability of the fetus. but never that it's just another part of her body.
     
  3. rhester

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    agree.

    and my response was one of emotion.

    abortion has taken us down a road of complexity...

    disadvantaged and abused women

    murdered babies

    profits and greed

    Human dignity

    the miracle of conception and birth

    These have become complex issues that go beyond a simple law or court ruling. We must deal with what is right and valuable for us as humans. We must address years of irresponsibility, prejudice, abuse, selfishness and greed.

    We must find solutions that involve commitment, personal sacrifice and compassion for the sake of women and unborn babies.

    We can do something right for our future. We must begin.
     
  4. rhester

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    And I am not trying to sound 'lofty' and 'good'

    I look for practical solutions, places to start, things we can do that go to the heart of this national problem. I don't do enough, I must do something. If nothing else these threads remind me to pray and act. To do something. That is my core belief. Help in some way.
     
  5. GladiatoRowdy

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    But as long as the fetus depends on the biological processes of the mother to continue developing, it is the mother's choice whether to use her womb to continue to nurture the fetus.

    I personally think that there should be a hard cut-off of 12 weeks for elective abortions, a view that is bolstered by this article. Once it gets over 12 weeks, the fetus has an outside shot at being able to survive outside the womb and that is the point where the mother's right to choose can be cut short, IMO.

    This is your opinion, but you have no right to force that opinion on another person.

    We have processes in place to punish the rapist. Why should we punish the woman by forcing her to have a baby that is the product of a rape? Are you seriously so cruel that you would force her to bear such a child?

    As a parent, I agree that children are a gift. However, I would never try to force said gift on someone who isn't ready to receive it yet.

    These statements may very well be true for you, but you have no right to decide for another person what is right and what is wrong for their life or for the life of any fetus that they may be carrying.

    I agree totally. There are a lot of things that could be done, but we could do even more if we focused our resources on things that work rather than trying to forward legislation to ban abortion. Banning abortion will not work, we much do other things to reduce the number of abortions.

    How about the relief and sense of well being that some women feel after abortions. Not all women are devastated and "damaged" as the result of an abortion. You can assume that all you want, but your assumptions are not necessarily the truth.

    With the system we have today, if a woman has a child, the father is responsible whether he wants to be or not. Women have recourse in the courts and have the ability to make the father take responsibility for the child.

    Agreed totally. This is one of the reasons that birth control options of all types (oncluding the morning after pill) should be available over the counter for adults. With more education and more widely available contraception, we can reduce the numbers of abortions drastically.
     
  6. MadMax

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    This was in the LA Times today. I can't begin to explain how heartbreaking this is to me.

    http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-abortion29nov29,0,2003322,full.story

    Offering Abortion, Rebirth
    Yes, an Arkansas doctor says, he destroys life. But he believes the thousands of women who have relied on him have been 'born again.'

    By Stephanie Simon, Times Staff Writer


    FAYETTEVILLE, Ark. — Dr. William F. Harrison has forgotten how many children the woman had. He remembers she was poor and, most vividly, he remembers her response when a physician diagnosed her distended stomach as pregnancy.

    "Oh, God, doctor," the woman said. "I was hoping it was cancer."

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    This was in 1967. Harrison was a medical student and his wife was expecting their third child. It had never occurred to him that a woman would be anything but happy to learn she was pregnant.

    The next year, he trained on a maternity ward. In a 24-hour shift, it was not unusual, he said, for four or five women to come in feverish or hemorrhaging from botched abortions.

    Harrison opened an obstetrics and gynecology practice, but after the Supreme Court established abortion as a constitutional right in 1973, he decided to take on an additional specialty. Now 70, Harrison estimates he's terminated at least 20,000 pregnancies.

    His clinic has not been picketed for years, but Harrison feels very much on the front lines these days.

    Debate over President Bush's nominee for the Supreme Court, Samuel A. Alito Jr., has centered on abortion. Activists on both sides warn — or pray — that if Alito is confirmed, the court may one day reverse Roe vs. Wade.

    At least a dozen states, and perhaps as many as 30, would probably continue to allow most abortions. But abortion rights activists predict that terminating a pregnancy would become a criminal act across much of the South, the Midwest and the Rocky Mountain region.

    In Arkansas, for instance, the state constitution sets out "to protect the life of every unborn child from conception until birth." At least 10 other states — including Illinois, Louisiana, Pennsylvania and Utah — have similar language in their constitutions or legal codes.

    Harrison warns every patient he sees that abortion may be illegal one day. He wants to stir them to activism, but most women respond mildly.

    "I can't imagine the country coming to that," says Kim, 35, in for her second abortion in two years.

    A high school senior says the issue won't weigh heavily when she evaluates candidates. "There's other issues I see as more important," she says, "like whether they'll raise taxes."

    Patients asked to be identified only by their first names or, in some cases, by their ages to protect their privacy.

    Harrison is beyond such concerns. For several years in the 1980s, his clinic was picketed, vandalized and once firebombed. Protesters marched outside his home and death threats became routine. Harrison responded by making his case.

    He answered every phone call, replied to every letter in the newspaper and appeared at public forums to defend abortion rights. Eventually, the protesters in this college town left him alone. (Arkansas Right to Life focuses instead on educating women about alternatives to abortion, Executive Director Rose Mimms said.)

    In the years since, Harrison has become more outspoken.

    He calls himself an "abortionist" and says, "I am destroying life."

    But he also feels he's giving life: He calls his patients "born again."

    "When you end what the woman considers a disastrous pregnancy, she has literally been given her life back," he says.

    Before giving up obstetrics in 1991, Harrison delivered 6,000 babies. Childbirth, he says, should be joyous; a woman should never consider it a punishment or an obligation.

    "We try to make sure she doesn't ever feel guilty," he says, "for what she feels she has to do."


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    It is a few minutes before 11 a.m. when Harrison raps on the door of his operating room and walks in.

    His Fayetteville Women's Clinic occupies a once-elegant home dating to the 1940s; the first-floor surgery looks like it was a parlor. Thick blue curtains block the windows and paintings of butterflies and flowers hang on the walls. The radio is tuned to an easy-listening station.

    An 18-year-old with braces on her teeth is on the operating table, her head on a plaid pillow, her feet up in stirrups, her arms strapped down at her sides. A pink blanket is draped over her stomach. She's 13 weeks pregnant, at the very end of the first trimester. She hasn't told her parents.

    A nurse has already given her a local anesthetic, Valium and a drug to dilate her cervix; Harrison prepares to inject Versed, a sedative, in her intravenous line. The drug will wipe out her memory of everything that happens during the 20 minutes she's in the operating room. It's so effective that patients who return for a follow-up exam often don't recognize Harrison.

    The doctor is wearing a black turtleneck, brown slacks and tennis shoes. He snaps his gum as he checks the monitors displaying the patient's pulse rate and oxygen count.

    "This is not going to be nearly as hard as you anticipate," he tells her.

    She smiles wanly. Keeping up a constant patter — he asks about her brothers, her future birth control plans, whether she's good at tongue twisters — Harrison pulls on sterile gloves.

    "How're you doing up there?" he asks.

    "Doing OK."

    "Good girl."

    Harrison glances at an ultrasound screen frozen with an image of the fetus taken moments before. Against the fuzzy black-and-white screen, he sees the curve of a head, the bend of an elbow, the ball of a fist.

    "You may feel some cramping while we suction everything out," Harrison tells the patient.

    A moment later, he says: "You're going to hear a sucking sound."

    The abortion takes two minutes. The patient lies still and quiet, her eyes closed, a few tears rolling down her cheeks. The friend who has accompanied her stands at her side, mutely stroking her arm.

    When he's done, Harrison performs another ultrasound. The screen this time is blank but for the contours of the uterus. "We've gotten everything out of there," he says.

    As the nurse drops the instruments in the sink with a clatter, the teenager looks around, woozy.

    "It was a lot easier than I thought it would be," she says. "I thought it would be horrible, but it wasn't. The procedure, that is."

    She is not yet sure, she says, how she is doing emotionally. She feels guilty, sad and relieved, all in a jumble.

    "There's things wrong with abortion," she says. "But I want to have a good life. And provide a good life for my child." To keep this baby now, she says, when she's single, broke and about to start college, "would be unfair."


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    Politicians on both sides of the abortion debate often talk up adoption as a better alternative. Harrison's patients do not consider it an option.

    A high school volleyball player says she doesn't want to give up her body for nine months. "I realize just from the first three months how it changes everything," she says.

    Kim, a single mother of three, says she couldn't bear to give away a child and have to wonder every day if he were loved. Ending the pregnancy seemed easier, she says — as long as she doesn't let herself think about "what could have been."

    By law, Harrison's staff must offer patients two pamphlets from the state. One lists adoption services and groups that provide free diapers, day-care subsidies and other aid. The second contains photos of the fetus at various stages of development.

    Patients don't have to accept either pamphlet. Most wave them away, their minds made up.

    For the few women who arrive ambivalent or beset by guilt, Harrison's nurse has posted statistics on the exam-room mirror: One out of every four pregnant women in the U.S. chooses abortion. A third of all women in this country will have at least one abortion by the time they're 45.

    "You think there's room in hell for all those women?" the nurse will ask.

    If the woman remains troubled, the nurse tells her to go home and think it over.

    "If they truly feel they're killing a baby, we're not going to do an abortion for them," says the nurse, who asked not to be identified for fear protesters would target her.

    The 17-year-old in for a consultation this morning assures the nurse that she does not consider the embryo inside her a baby.

    "Not until it's developed," she says. "That would be about three months?"

    "It's completely formed about nine weeks," the nurse tells her. "Yours is more like a chicken yolk."

    The girl, who is five weeks pregnant, looks relieved. "Then no," she says, "it's not a baby." Her mother sits in the corner wiping her tears.

    Harrison draws his own moral line at the end of the second trimester, or 26 weeks since the first day of the woman's last menstrual period. Until that point, he will abort for any reason.

    "It's not a baby to me until the mother tells me it's a baby," he says.

    But Harrison refuses to end third-trimester pregnancies, even if the fetus is severely disabled. Some premature infants born at that stage, or even a few weeks earlier, can survive. Harrison believes they may be developed enough to feel pain in utero. Just a handful of doctors around the nation will abort a fetus at this stage.

    "I just don't think it should be done," says Harrison, who calls the practice infanticide.

    Most women seek abortions much earlier in pregnancy; nearly 90% are in their first trimester. As long as Roe vs. Wade stands, states cannot ban abortions that early but legislatures can impose a variety of conditions.

    At least 28 states, including Arkansas, require patients to receive counseling before the day of their abortion. Arkansas is also one of 26 states to require underage girls to get parental consent.

    Abortion rights activists say such laws burden women unnecessarily, forcing them to miss work, find child care and pay for transportation to make two trips to the clinic, which may be hundreds of miles away. There's one abortion clinic in Mississippi and one in South Dakota. There are two in Missouri and two in Arkansas.

    Amanda, a 20-year-old administrative assistant, says it's not the obstacles that surprise her — it's how normal and unashamed she feels as she prepares to end her first pregnancy.

    "It's an everyday occurrence," she says as she waits for her 2:30 p.m. abortion. "It's not like this is a rare thing."

    Amanda hasn't told her ex-boyfriend that she's 15 weeks pregnant with his child. She hasn't told her parents, either, though she lives with them.

    "I figured it was my responsibility," she says.

    She regrets having to pay $750 for the abortion, but Amanda says she does not doubt her decision. "It's not like it's illegal. It's not like I'm doing anything wrong," she says.

    "I've been praying a lot and that's been a real source of strength for me. I really believe God has a plan for us all. I have a choice, and that's part of my plan."


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    Before, after and even during an abortion, Harrison lectures his patients on birth control. He urges them to get on the pill and to insist their partners use condoms.

    They promise. But Harrison knows many will be back.

    His first patient of the day, Sarah, 23, says it never occurred to her to use birth control, though she has been sexually active for six years. When she became pregnant this fall, Sarah, who works in real estate, was in the midst of planning her wedding. "I don't think my dress would have fit with a baby in there," she says.

    The last patient of the day, a 32-year-old college student named Stephanie, has had four abortions in the last 12 years. She keeps forgetting to take her birth control pills. Abortion "is a bummer," she says, "but no big stress."

    Harrison does not get frustrated with such patients.

    He has learned to focus on the facts he considers most important: This woman does not want to be pregnant. He can give her back control of her life and keep a child from coming into the world unwanted. He believes in this so strongly, he waives his fees for women who can't come up with the money.

    Last February, Harrison injured his head in a fall. He underwent three surgeries and spent months in rehabilitation. His wife urged him to retire.

    "There's no one to take my place," he told her.

    As soon as he felt strong enough, Harrison was back in surgery.

    He'll keep at it as long as his stamina holds, or as long as it is legal.

    Three abortions before lunch and three more after: The appointment book is always full.

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    (BEGIN TEXT OF INFOBOX)

    Abortion in the U.S.

    The U.S. abortion rate has been dropping since 1990, but abortion remains one of the most common surgical procedures for women. A quarter of all pregnancies end in abortion. A third of all American women will have had an abortion by the age of 45, according to the Guttmacher Institute, a research organization that supports abortion rights.

    Who has abortions

    By age:

    Under 15: 1%

    15-19: 19%

    20-24: 33%

    25-29: 23%

    30-34: 13%

    35-39: 8%

    40-44: 3%

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    Abortions by gestational age

    (Weeks of gestation at time of abortion) BTR Less than 9 59.1%
    BTR 9-10 19.0%
    BTR 11-12 10.0%
    BTR 13-15 6.2%
    BTR 16-20 4.3%
    BTR 21-plus 1.4%
    The normal gestation period is about 40 weeks

    Sources: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Guttmacher Institute
     
  7. MadMax

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    wow..you've come a very long way on this issue.
     
  8. GladiatoRowdy

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    No small thanks to the discussions that we have had on the subject. Thank you for helping me to crystallize my views.
     
  9. Saint Louis

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    The one liberal issue I don't agree with is abortion. I also hate the way the issue is used for politics on the right. I think any woman seeking an abortion should first go a hospital ward and hold a baby. Then let them decide if they can "terminate" the life inside of them.

    I have two children and enjoy them everyday. Any man who fails to be responsible for the offspring they sow should have their testicles smashed with a hammer.

    The great injustice in the world is couples who can't conceive, yet every day children are killed by those who don't want them.

    I imagine one day humans reaching the edge of the solar system and finding a big sign planted there by aliens saying "Warning: This star system inhabited by savages."
     
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    Agreed, the above excerpt is horrible.

    I hate this debate, I hate this issue. Around every corner is a crappy answer.
     
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    The only way to solve this problem: One should only use his or her reproduction organs when he or she intends to reproduce.
     
  12. GladiatoRowdy

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    Tell me when this has worked at any time in human history.
     
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    The problem is, debating abortion as an issue of legality is not, by a longshot, the most direct route to preventing abortions, regardless of how you personally feel about the subject. We seem to need the debate, or some of us to do at least. The common ground is staring us in the face, but we love the debate too much to actually hash out the logistics.

    If we really could get consensus between pro choice and anti-choice sides on prioritizing a grand reduction of abortions, could would not pay attention to social science research literature on the subject, see what works, and then implement those strategies? We sit and grandstand on "well I think 12 weeks is too late" and "people who want abortions should be made to hold children" and so forth. Why is this not a practical debate? Hasn't something been effective that we could build on?

    Well surprise surprise, birth control and healthy sexual education.

    BUT, addressing the comically-obvious reality of human behavior - that most people have sex outside of the need to procreate - contradict the current position of powerful politcal religious advocacy groups - that "sex before marriage is bad, mmmkay?"

    My question is this:

    If, and please go with the hypothetical here , IF it could be demonstrated that Sex Ed. and Condoms and so forth - or let's just go with the ABC campaign ("Abstain, Be Faithful and Condoms" ) - if supporting that had more of an impact on reducing abortions than battling for more legal restrictions did - would you support it?

    Because if not, don't those who believe abortion to be tantamount to murder, sort of have blood on their hands? I mean, if tools to greatly reduce abortions exist, and instead opt for tools that are demonstrably ineffective, aren't we complicit?

    Help me here.
     
  14. mc mark

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    It’s sort of like the recent catch 22 story of the catholic school teacher here in New York that was fired from her teaching job because she got pregnant out of wedlock and wanted to keep the baby.

    weird...
     
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    Did her wanting to keep the baby have anything to do with her firing? :confused:
     
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    Yep!

    [edit] Or should I say they didn't want a pregnant unwed teacher teaching at a catholic school.
     
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    Don't you think that the fact that she got pregnant under those circumstances would have been enough to have her terminated from a Catholic school?

    The way you were setting this up seemed to imply that having an abortion would have been a safer course for her than to remain pregnant.
     
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    I'd sue their ass
     
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    Excellent post totally agree.
     
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    She could've had an abortion and not told them. Its kind of hard to cover up a pregnancy as holiday weight gain.
     

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