Let me be the first to say...WTF. I mean, you are completely right and stuff, but your language just sounds so awkward . But your words inspired me to change my opinion. I still say - bang her if you have to, take naked pictures of her, kick her out of the house and post the pictures on the Internet. But then - forgive her. And confess and repent.
thats all well and good, but SHE CALLED HIM WHILE HAVING SEX W/ ANOTHER DUDE AND MADE HIM LISTEN!!! where in the bible is that condoned? i would have gone ron and nicole on those two and im pretty sure god would have understood. "All of us are filthy and sinful in God's eyes." thats soooo old testament.
Forgiveness is like two sides of a coin. On one side you release the hate, revenge, anger and spite towards the person. On the other side you find out if you can rebuild trust which would offer an opportunity to rebuild a relationship. For your sake you must forgive her pain she caused you and let go of any anger and revenge. For the sake of your future you must be careful not to 'blindly' trust her, she must earn your trust. You have to be a wise judge of motives to know if she has genuinely changed and she can be trusted. Don't trust someone who has not earned your trust.
Am I misreading that or did she actually call you while they were having sex?????? If that is the case that girl is just a twisted she-devil. As opposed to Slick Rick, I prefer the Geto Boys Explanation: "Just Let a ho be a ho" Don't go jumping out of a window over some ho-bag! There are waaaaaay too many hot women to get caught up over one.
Man, get back with her, ASAP To think of someone as crazy as her calling you, etc. She must be wild in the sack.... If you do nothing, PM her # to me.
whoaaaaaaaaaaaa ....that chick did u WRONG by calling and pulling that stuff...thats messed up, seriously...how could u even consider going back with someone like that? she practically spit in your face...theres many more fish in the sea man...
Holy Crap...I didn't know this...Dude...Run away, far far away...Even for the easy bang, its not worth it...